So I got to wondering how many times I had actually had some sort of sex with The Wife last year and it turns out it was 5 times - pretty disappointing. I did not count times with The Ex, but I suspect it is probably about double that. Really wish I could get more pussy!

Well, Friday the weather was horrible and the restaurant that we had intended going to was closed so we ended up at Olive Garden. Nice dinner and then to the hotel and directly to sleep. Got up early and went to our event. Saturday evening had a decent dinner and back to the hotel where I tried to get her 'going' messed around bit and even rubbed on her pussy a bit but she never made it easy and I finally just gave up, turned over and went to sleep. Got up early and showered while she was still sleeping. Now we are back home and sleeping in separate rooms as usual.

The Wife and I are going out of town and I booked a room at a mid range hotel, so that should be ok, planned for a very nice dinner on Friday night at a restaurant that I tried by myself last year. All of that being planned with absolutely no realistic expectation of getting laid. Just trying to treat The Wife properly and make it a reasonably relaxing weekend. Well, we will see........

So we got some pretty extreme winter weather here (for this part of the country) and I did not have to go into work until early afternoon, so a 'lazy' morning. I made coffee and went in to wake The Wife. After talking a bit, I undressed and climbed in bed with her hoping for a bit if sex. Fooled around a bit trying to get her started but nothing really was happening. I mentioned that there was coffee and she is like 'ok I am getting out if bed if there is coffee' my response was to the effect of' oh, so coffee is more important than sex with me?' so she starts to get back in bed but I say forget it and get out myself. Cannot really believe that I turned down the opportunity for sex, but it was too obvious that it was not a priority for her anyway and if we are having sex, I want to feel that she wants it as well.

Well, a few weeks ago, I was hired for a 'real job' (I am used to working for myself or for others with minimal supervision) and I thought it would be a pretty good fit but it has caused way too much stress for me and my plan at this point is to give my 2 weeks notice this Friday. Adding to the stress is that a week and a half ago my waterbed sprung a leak and now we are sleeping on a conventional mattress for the first time in about 25 years. The Wife and I did have a brief fuck in the new bed a few days after we got it, but nothing to brag about, it still feels like I have to convince her to do anything, not like she has any real desire to have sex.
Well, life goes on ...

So I am part of a business networking group and there is one member in my group that I am not too fond of. Very professional lady, just rubs me the wrong way and after knowing her for about 10 years, I have found her to be a bit insincere at times. she is one woman who I have never looked at in a sexual manner. Last week at our meeting, I looked over and realized that her nipples were sticking out like eraser points (large ones). A bit surprising that she did not wear a thicker bra or something as professional as she is, but WOW what large and pointy nipples.
Still not seeing her in a sexual way.

Saturday afternoon, The Wife was doing laundry and I made sure to put mine away as fast as she could get it out of the dryer in the hope that she would not object to me joining her in bed. Bedtime comes around and we do sleep together (really - sleep). I woke up early in the morning as usual and went upstairs to shower, came down and made coffee then went back to the bedroom and got back in bed. After a bit she began to wake up and indicated that she was feeling a bit frisky. Once she went to the bathroom, we began kissing (a bit, but not as much as I would like) and I began fingering her then she got her bullet vibe to play with me as I went to eat her. As I was eating her, I began to use my thumb to finger her which seems to work pretty well with her and she got more vigorous with her jerking of me which got me cumming quickly so I got a bit more aggressive with my lips and thumb and ate her to what appeared to be a pretty powerful orgasm as she ended up pushing me away. While I would have preferred to cum IN her instead of on her, it was a pretty good time.

So, as usual, I was making suggestions toward sex throughout the day on Friday especially when The Wife was walking around naked (or partially so) a few times. She sort of said later but that is usually her way of blowing me off so I did not take any notice. Evening came and I decided to not drive for UBER as I was tired anyway. At the usual time (about 10:45) we turned off the tv and headed to bed, I suggested that I sleep with her and she said yes with more enthusiasm than I expected. We got in bed and she immediately cuddled up to me which, of course, got me excited but then she went to sleep and I was left with a 'kickstand'. Well Sh*t! My thought was to get out of bet and go upstairs, but she had draped herself over me and every time I moved she would ask me to not leave. Additionally, I really was tired and just wanted to sleep. Well, when I got up in the morning, I got out of bed and went to exercise - ran on the treadmill for a bit more than 30 minutes - when I was done I went to get my clothes so I could shower and she was asking me to come back to bed. I told her that I needed to shower and would return which I did. When I got back inn bed, she once again draped herself on me and we both started to stroke one another. Finally I got tired of the messing around and asked her to take off her shirt so I could more easily reach her tits which she, surprisingly, did. She then got out her bullet and played with my dick while I played with her tits and fingered her. After maybe 10 or 15 minutes of this she asked me to get the lube so I could fuck her which I did. problem was that I did not get to eat her and she had got me so worked up with her stroking that once I started fucking her I could not last. It almost seems that she wants me to cum quickly when we fuck but I really want to last longer because it does feel good.
Oh, well, as I said, something is better than nothing and I am now back to sleeping in 'my' room upstairs.
Luckily, The Ex's kid is back i school as of today so perhaps we will get to fuck sooner rather than later.

More to come tomorrow, but the 14 week drought with The Wife ended on this past Saturday. Not very memorable, but it was 'something' I will try to fill in the blanks tomorrow

Well I do not think I have ever been so glad for a year to end! Too many folks dying around me and too many personal problems. I am So ready to move on in 2015.

It does look like I will finish out the year without sex (other than solo) so that will make 14 weeks since The Wife and I have fucked and about 4 or 5 since The Ex and I fucked. I strongly suspect that The Ex and I will fuck soon after the new year once her kid is back in school but I have no idea when The Wife and I will begin fucking again. As I said in my previous blog, I am finally really ready to confront her and make some decisions about moving forward.

My plan is to drive for UBER today and then act in my mystery dinner tonight followed by driving for UBER again since the best money is driving the drunks late at night.

I hope everyone has a safe and fun NYE and please remember not to drive impaired! If you have been drinking (or anything else) call UBER / LYFT / cab service.