This evening I was talking with The Ex while driving and she was talking about her ongoing meetings with her Rabbi and the fact that since we got a divorce in the courts but not thru a rabbi, that in a strange way, we are still married (NOT) and that the strictest view of Judaism allows multiple wives (I did not know that). Anyway, apparently she had been having some issues with us still sleeping together and this revelation assisted in alleviating those issues. I am not sure that any of her revelations make any difference to me, but if it makes her feel better about us still having sex then I am good with it.

Marks 9 days that The Ex has stayed with me and I have not killed her yet (lol). It IS stressful having her around but sometimes worth it. We have only fucked one time, but I am hopeful that we will have a long, lazy enjoyable fuck session tonight.
The Wife returns tomorrow evening and she has been texting me about how much she misses me, wellll - we will see just how much she missed me and if there is any interest in sex. Probably not tomorrow night as she will have been on a plane for about 14 hours and is bound to be worn out, but maybe Sunday AM.
Stay tuned for updates.

Apparently when I fucked The Ex the other night, she had tightened up so much from lack of sex that I stretched her a bit much (she said it felt like she 'tore' a bit). Also it started her period. Apparently neither of those things has diminished her desire to fuck. She did ask me to get some condoms since apparently since I had the vasectomy, my sum makes her sick in come way (I think it is that she is nervous and does not trust the vasectomy) so I went and got a 10 pack of the thinnest ones I could get and I guess we will fuck a few more times this week before The Wife returns.

Actually This Morning ...
The Ex fell asleep last night which did not terribly surprise me, but early this morning I heard the alarm on her hone going off. I tried to silence it, but could not so went up to ask for her assistance at which point she got up and came downstairs with me. We sat and watched TV as she messed around on FB. .After a bit, she went to shower and I did the same. Once we were both clean, we did lie down for a quick fuck. It was nice, but really left me wanting more.

So last Monday The Wifes grandmother died and being that the family lives in Germany, on Wednesday morning I put her on a plane to visit for 10 days. Wellllll so I thought that The Ex and I would fuck like bunnies but she is too busy during the week. Early this afternoon, she calls and asks if she can come over with the granddaughters to spend the night. My response is of course she can and that I assume we will have some 'private time' once they are asleep and she assures me that this will happen. So I am suddenly tasked with cleaning the house well enough for grand kids to be hanging around (mainly cleaning up bird seed from my feathered ones) and making a tuna noodle casserole for dinner.
Sort of looking forward to this and hoping that she is able to live up to her promises (also sort of wishing that I had not jerked off earlier as she has been asking for a 'large load')

So last weekend, we were out of town. I left on Friday and The Wife joined me Saturday morning. I considered going to a bar and trying to pick someone up on Friday but was really too tired from the drive and setting up our booth so I went back to the hotel and crashed. Got up early Saturday morning and went to the show we were working where The Wife joined me a bit later. Had a good day at the show and took her out to a rather expensive dinner that was well worth it. I must admit that I figured since she had a pretty stressful week at work, if we had a really nice dinner, perhaps she would be in the mood for some loving. Well, not so much, we went back to the hotel and she was 'out like a light' while I read a book. We got up in the morning and she sort of indicated that we might make love, which we did, but it was quick because we had to be back at the show. I did not really enjoy it much (a) because she did not taste that good and (b) because we were obviously rushed and that is just no fun. When we were done, I laid back and said that we now needed to shower and get going and she was like, ' I figured you would say that '. Of course I said that, we had people to feed and she wanted to grab breakfast on the way so we needed to shower and get going SOON. I guess I should note that she DID bring her bullet vibe, so she had 'sort of' planned this, but she does always take that when we travel and nothing usually happens.
Thought I would get to fuck The Ex Monday or Tuesday but no such luck. still hoping since she said once The Kid was back in school, we would start up again.

So The Ex picked me up from the airport when I got home but she had her kid with her so no activity, but when we got back to my place, she helped me to carry my luggage in and kid was left in the car so I got one good kiss from her and we discussed fucking soon since school is starting up again in a few weeks - she said yes, she is horny but just has not had time or freedom to act on it.
Later in the evening, The Wife and I went out to dinner with friends and when we got home we watched some TV. After the news, we were headed to bed and I decided to join her which required cleaning her stuff off of my side. Obviously, I was hoping for some 'loving' she gets in bed and I go to snuggle up to her trying to make if clear that I want more. She complains that her eyes hurt and I ask if she needs eye drops she says no, she will just keep her eyes closed but go ahead. I say no, another time, but she keeps saying go ahead, so I go to eat her and do so for about 20+ minutes (no idea if I am hitting the right spots as minimal reaction) all the while, she is playing with my dick with her rabbit. Finally, I am about to cum, but would prefer to deposit it in her pussy, so move to fuck her, but have trouble getting it in because she is so tight and appears to be in pain (no this is not what her orgasm looks like) Finally give up and did not cum and she immediately rolls over and goes to sleep.
I feel disgusted with myself and her at the same time so I got out of her bed and went up to my room.
Question for the ladies - If your man could not climax, would you roll over and go to sleep or try to make him feel better and perhaps go 'the extra mile' to help him achieve climax and feel 'manly'

So I saw this 30 day No Masturbation / No Booze challenge on FB yesterday and I am debating trying it as I seem to be spending a bit too much time masturbating right now (probably at least in part due to stress and absolutely NO sex). Only problem is I really do not drink much so I think I would make it no Masturbation and no sugary sweets (the sugary sweets will be really difficult for me since part of what I do for a living is baking). I would be curious on thoughts from others on here.

Had a remembrance ceremony for my dad on Wednesday where over 250 friends came to say goodbye - that was overwhelming - and about 100 of them came back to the house for further friendship and fellowship. Went back to the 'weekend house' where my dad died on Friday evening and just sent The Wife and the oldest daughter home this evening. I am staying with my mom for the remainder of the week to assist her with whatever she needs help with. You know these things will happen in life, but you just hope they will happen later in life.
Remember to always hug the ones you love and don't get hung up on the small details unless they are SUPER important. Luckily my dad and I were in a good place at this time and had not argued for quite a while. Just regret that I did not call him Friday evening as I usually did.

Saturday afternoon, I received a call from my mom telling me that my dad had gone missing while out on a boat and that I needed to fly home immediately. I booked a flight and was at their place by 3 Am the next day. During my trip, they did find the boat and by 6:30 Am they found his body. The official cause of death is drowning, but knowing how strong of a person my dad is, we are fairly convinced that there was some kind of 'cardiac event'