The Wife likes to 'sleep in' on the weekends, but I cannot do that. I automatically get up no later than 6 AM and usually earlier. This means if I want to even TRY to attempt sexual activity, I have to get up like usual and then go back to bed when I think it will be time to wake her and hope that I am guessing the time right then I have to hope that she is actually open to sex without me basically begging for it or having a discussion about everything BUT sex before she agrees.
I understand that she works hard during the week (I do as well) but I wish she would make some effort in the sex department like she used to so I would feel that she actually WANTED to fuck and so that I would not always feel that I am forcing her.

This past Monday I had another seizure (first one in about 10 - 12 years). Last one kept me in the hospital for a week, this time, they checked me out and sent me home. Problem is now I am not allowed to drive for 6 months which will make running my food truck challenging. Current train of thought is that the Ex may be able to drive my vehicle to pull the trailer and will just start working with me full time. We will see ..... of course that will probably lead to more sex as well so that would be a nice side effect.
The Wife is now sort of insisting that I sleep with her instead of upstairs as she is concerned about another seizure and I asked her twice this week about sex and her response both times was wait till the weekend. As we were going to sleep last night, I asked her what time I should wake her today and she said 'don't' - well that would mean no sex so I guess that is not happening today. Oh well I guess things are not really changing.

The Ex came over this morning, I truly thought we were just going to talk a bit, although I hoped we might fuck. Well, at 8:30 my calendar beeped that I had a 9:00 meeting - DAMN - I forgot about that! Texted her, got dressed, and left the house. Halfway to the meeting the person I was supposed to meet called and said he thought it was next week - whew - texted her that I am headed back home. Ended up following her back to my place. She came inside and we had our discussion and she says ' are we going to have some fun? If so are we going upstairs and if we are get up there and get undressed. Well, who am I to argue? I run up get undressed and wait for her (only a few minutes). She climbs in bed with me, we talk for a few minutes and start kissing and I start slowly rubbing her pussy with my fingers. after a bit of this, I move down to eat her which I do for about 10 - 15 minutes until she screams out in orgasm. I immediately move up to fuck her HARD! I am actually a bit surprised at how hard I am as I made the mistake of jerking off earlier. I am HARDER than usual and harder than I have been with The Wife for quite some time. I fuck her for about 5 or so minutes as hard as I can which she has come to like, when I can feel the inevitable, I do as she prefers, and pull out and cum on her belly. Actually, not a bad load considering that I had cum just a few hours earlier - she seemed happy with the size -.
Well, that was my Monday Surprise, and a nice one at that. Pretty surprised that I actually fucked both The Wife and The Ex within 72 hours.

Well, yesterday after I wrote my last blog, i decided to go back in the bedroom and see if The Wife really would be receptive to some fucking. I went in and it took a bit for me to get her out of bed so she could pee before we did anything. Finally got her up and out of bed, she went and peed and came back to bed. Before getting back in bed, she went to her luggage and got out her bullet vibe. We kissed a bit (not as much as I like and not much tongue, which is disappointing) finally I got down to eating her and she playing with my dick for a bit. When I got her well enough lubed from my tongue work, I turned around and fucked her for a few minutes before I came. During the entire thing, I mentioned to her that I really would like some sort of response from her so I know if she is enjoying what I am doing and she responded that she has never been very vocal. I did not want to start an argument at that point, but she obviously does not remember that she used to absolutely SCREAM when we were fucking.
Oh, well, it was sex with her VS sex with my Right hand....

The Wife and I are on vacation as planned and visiting my Mom, Sister and Nephew. As usual, we stay in a separate 'cottage' on my parents property due to limited room in the house (the cottage we stay in was on the property when my dad purchased it and they stayed in it while they built the main house and kept it for guest overflow). We got up here Wednesday night and stayed in a hotel. I tried to get things started, but she went straight to sleep, tried again Thursday,and while she did not say NO, there was no reaction. Last night (Friday) I decided to stop 'beating around the bush' and straight out told her I wanted sex. Once again, she did not say NO, but made it clear that it was not the time. I asked her what time I cold wake her in the AM for sex and never got an answer so I got up at my usual time, went and brushed my teeth and shaved. Now here I am sitting on my computer blogging instead of fucking. I guess in a few minutes, I will go in and try to wake her to see what happens. Only one more day till we fly home and then back to 'normal'. We did have an interesting discussion at dinner last night where it was indicated that extra-marital-sex was not a total deal breaker if the rest of the relationship was strong so maybe that is something I really do need to explore with her. (oddly enough this was a discussion with my mom, Wife and daughter about my sister and her now ex husband)
Hope everyone is having a more sexual weekend than I!

The Wife is now working a 'real' job again and is on mandatory overtime of at least 10 hours per week since she is hourly that is a good thing so a bit of additional money. The Ex is working her regular job and now working for me 2 or 3 evenings a week as well. I got my food truck (trailer) and will finally start making money with it hopefully next week.
No sex other than with myself since the 22nd (last blog) and although The Wife and I are traveling next week, I will be surprised if anything happens.
Hopefully work starts to go well and will distract me from feeling frustrated or even maybe The Wife will be happy and more relaxed and want sex ... unlikely, but who knows?

Last night I chose to offer to sleep with The Wife and she accepted but made it clear that she was too tired for sex. As usual, I got up early in the morning and knew not to wake her so I went upstairs and showered, shaved , groomed, etc. Went back down and made coffee then climbed in bed with her. She woke up with minimal complaints (about 7:30 at this point) and spent the next hour talking about everything and nothing. FInally I ran out of patience and just made it clear that I wanted to fuck so after a bit I did just go under the covers and went down on her. I was hoping for some reaction , but there was little. At one point, I stopped and asked her if I should turn off the TV so she could concentrate on what I was doing! She said no, that is felt 'good'. I ate her for about 15 - 20 minutes with minimal reaction from her and then decided that if she would not react, I would just go ahead and fuck her. I did and while doing so she did have a pretty good orgasm. Afterwards I felt like why did I bother, she does not really want it and as much as I prefer to cum while fucking, I find it hard to get really excited when she obviously does not care if we do or not. At least with The Ex, she may be distracted, but when we are fucking, that is what she wants to be doing and she lets me know that she is enjoying the experience during the entire thing.

So depressed today! Just having a really rough day and not a happy camper. Would some please come and have hot sweaty sex with me to make me feel better!
Actually the day started out good just ended on a sour note.

Well, the surgery went well, and I did not say anything that I regret while under sedation (whew!) I do not remember Friday except for a bit of the morning and then I sort of remember a bit of Saturday. Since I was not allowed to drive and did not feel like going out on Saturday, I spent time searching CL for a food trailer and we ended up taking a 3 1/2 hour drive to check one out today (total of almost 8 hours) but ended up not not getting it. On the way home I suggested a few times to The Wife that we might have sex tonight and she pretty much blew me off each time. Ended up we had dinner out and came home at which time she fell asleep on the sofa so after I watched a bit of TV, I covered up our birds and we went to bed - her in her room and me upstairs.
I hope everyone had a great and sexxy weekend.

Well, it really did snow here. Actually, there are about 2 inches of ice covered by a few inches of snow so the driving is pretty treacherous. This morning I took The Wife to work since I have a 4x4 and then called The Ex on my way home thinking perhaps someone could watch her kid and she and I could have some time to fuck since I have no work today. Well, so far no luck, she asked me to drive her around to a few stops with the kid in tow which I did. I am still hoping that we will fuck before I have to pick up The Wife this afternoon, but I am not holding my breath.
Having pretty major oral surgery tomorrow so I will probably be out of touch for a few days. I am a bit nervous about it, but the end result will be that I have better oral health for many years to come. They are starting an implant and doing 3 crowns all at once. 2 more appointments later this year and hopefully the dental issues are done for a while.