The Ex wants me to hold off on jerking off so that I will have a bigger load for her. I did manage for two days, and was expecting her to come over today. When she did not, I finally gave in and jerked off twice. What a relief. She will be tied up with our younger daughter tomorrow (Wednesday)and I will try to resist so that if we can hook up on Thursday I will have a decent load for her.
The problem is every time I log in here to check up on everyone, I get so excited that I have trouble NOT cumming! At least I have a full day tomorrow and am unlikely to have time for more than a really quick swing thru.

That my update will be done later today or tomorrow morning .......

The other night, I suggested to The Wife that she join me upstairs and her response was that she cannot sleep upstairs especially if she has to get up for work in the morning. There are two problems with this statement - 1) she has only tried to sleep upstairs one time in the past 13 months and 2) this was Saturday night and she did not have to get up in the AM. She did say that I was welcome to sleep in the bedroom with her but I declined as I pointed out that it would not matter since she would just go directly to sleep. She did not disagree or argue, so I just went on upstairs.

We went to a nice dinner at a steak house with our friends and had a few drinks. Came home and watched a bit of the Olympics and news then headed to bed where I thought The Wife *might* either join me upstairs of suggest that I should join her downstairs, but, no surprise, we went different directions so there I lay, alone on what is my 15th anniversary.
Really not a surprise, but frustrating nonetheless.

For Monday, I have a catering job in the evening and The Ex will be helping me cook in the morning. She was rather frustrated that we did not have time to fuck yesterday so we will probably spend some time cooking and some time fucking Monday morning. (actually, I am going to try to get a good bit of the cooking done between today and tomorrow to make Monday less stressful)

Is my wedding anniversary. I assume we will go out to dinner tonight and maybe again this weekend to celebrate with different friends. We have tickets for Wicked for next week as well. What I assume will not be part of the celebration if sex
The Ex is coming over today for lunch and we are supposed to have some 'fun' so at least that.
Got a busy weekend with a few hours of work both Saturday and Sunday and then a big event to cater on Monday evening.

**Edit**
So The Wife gets up this morning and is all 'lovey dovey' with me rubbing and kissing on me which is certainly not normal. and gives me a anniversary card that seems to promise more attention. It says to the effect of ' I know i do not pay enough attention to you and I will do better. Needless to say, I am not holding my breath as things have not changed for over 10 years and we have had many discussions about the lack of sexual activity where she indicated that she would make an effort.
hmmmmmmmmm we will see. Updates later or in the AM depending on how the day goes.
Well, off to work now ....

The Wife asks how I slept (since we sleep in separate rooms) and I usually answer 'fine' when what I really want to say is 'ok, but it would have been so much better if I had a woman to curl up to and make love' but that would not get me anywhere. Then today, she bitches because The Ex spent the day sitting on the sofa working. She says it upsets her that The Ex spends more time in 'her' home that she does. I was like, this is one time when she just sat here and kept the birds company while she got some work done. PLEASE just chill out.
Sorry - just my bitch of the day!

The Wife was working on cleaning her office (at home) and I, once again, made moves on her sexually and she continued to shoot me down. Now, ok, she really did need to get things finished up in her office and she asked me if she should quit working to go with me and I said no, I was just trying to remind her that it had been over 8 weeks since I had made love to my wife which got an awww type of response but nothing indicating that would change. As we went to bed, I hesitated thinking she might say, join me and lets make love but no, that did not happen. Oh well .... I did not expect things to change, but I do keep trying and meanwhile I will continue to fuck The Ex whenever I can. (and I have started browsing CL for opportunities)

(Or - You can't blame Guy for Trying)
because it does sort of hurt to try when you are shot down.
Yesterday (Saturday) we were hanging around the house and got a call from one of our tenants that she was moving so that created a change of plans since we now had to go secure the ac unit so it would not get stolen for the copper value. Well,I had a catering order to be picked up at 2:00 so we had some time to kill before the client arrived and The Wife was like 'what are we going to do for the next 90 minutes' and of course, my response was to start kissing her neck and ears and telling her that I know exactly what we can do for the next 90 minutes. WEEEELLLL you can guess the response! After trying 3 times to convince her that we should spend at least part of the next 90 minutes in bed, I gave up and pointed out that another option was to head to the hardware store and get the materials that we needed. She liked that idea! Off we went. Ultimately, the catering order was picked up and we secured the AC unit. Spent the evening at a filming for a new game show that an acquaintance of mine is starting and I ended up as a contestant and won second prize.
On another note, I understand that the groundhog saw his shadow and is predicting another 6 weeks of winter. Would someone please shoot the groundhog.

Well, The Ex got distracted yesterday so we did not get a chance to fuck and she even said that she was frustrated by not having sex when planned. We will try again Monday or Tuesday for sure.

and that can be dangerous but not this time.
A few weeks ago I was counting up how many times I had fucked The Wife last year and I figured I can do the same for The Ex (thanks to this blog)
It appears that I fucked The Wife about 8 times last year or about every 6 weeks, on the other hand, I fucked The Ex about every 3 1/2 weeks or 13 times last year so almost twice as often and so far this year, I am moving to break that record.
Just interesting thoughts that really do not mean anything.
Hoping that she will spend some time here today both working, in the Hot Tub (which is cooler than yesterday) and in bed on top of me.