Well .... Last night we went out and did our monthly mystery dinner thing and The Wife had a carafe of sangria. Now normally she does not get horny from wine (although I keep hoping she will) last night was different and maybe our anniversary and Valentines Day were part of it - who knows. I did notice before we left that she had cleared the 'junk' off of the bed so if I wanted, there was a place for me to sleep. We got home late as we usually do from these events and sat to watch the late news for a few minutes, finally put our birds to bed (covered the cages) and she went to bed - well I decided to follow her and was pleasantly surprised when she was receptive to my advances and was (sort of) kissing me back. She complained that her hands were cold so I moved one hand to my dick and she started to stroke me. After a few minutes, I changed position so I could finger her and moved so my dick was near her head. She began to suck on me a little bit - not as energetically as in the distant past, but some suck is better than no suck. I kept fingering her and after a bit moved to eat her while she kept playing with me. I decided to be aggressive with my oral assault and that seemed to have a good effect as she was writing and reacting in other ways to my tongue. She was getting wetter and wetter and moving around more as I went between sucking on her clit and sticking my tongue as deep into her hole as possible (which put my nose almost in her asshole). I also fingered her a bit when I was sucking on her clit. After a bit of this and when I did not think either of us could stand any more, I moved up and fucked her. We were both so worked up that neither of us lasted long and we both came with a scream/growl. I can honestly say that this was one of the best sessions with The Wife in a long, long time.
I do not expect a repeat performance any time soon, but I am grateful for this one.

Well .... The show was great last night, we both enjoyed it. This morning she seemed somewhat down, but when queried, denied being down or anything being wrong. Against my better judgement, because I do not think she appreciates it, I stopped and got her some very expensive chocolates, a special cookie, flowers and a card. I doubt that this will buy me sex, but at least I am doing the 'right thing' for the holiday.

The Wife and I have tickets to Wicked. I am really looking forward to finally seeing this show. Purchased the tickets as a anniversary / VT day gift. Do not really expect to get laid anytime soon by The Wife, but I am just taking life as it is presented.

The Ex wants me to hold off on jerking off so that I will have a bigger load for her. I did manage for two days, and was expecting her to come over today. When she did not, I finally gave in and jerked off twice. What a relief. She will be tied up with our younger daughter tomorrow (Wednesday)and I will try to resist so that if we can hook up on Thursday I will have a decent load for her.
The problem is every time I log in here to check up on everyone, I get so excited that I have trouble NOT cumming! At least I have a full day tomorrow and am unlikely to have time for more than a really quick swing thru.

That my update will be done later today or tomorrow morning .......

The other night, I suggested to The Wife that she join me upstairs and her response was that she cannot sleep upstairs especially if she has to get up for work in the morning. There are two problems with this statement - 1) she has only tried to sleep upstairs one time in the past 13 months and 2) this was Saturday night and she did not have to get up in the AM. She did say that I was welcome to sleep in the bedroom with her but I declined as I pointed out that it would not matter since she would just go directly to sleep. She did not disagree or argue, so I just went on upstairs.

We went to a nice dinner at a steak house with our friends and had a few drinks. Came home and watched a bit of the Olympics and news then headed to bed where I thought The Wife *might* either join me upstairs of suggest that I should join her downstairs, but, no surprise, we went different directions so there I lay, alone on what is my 15th anniversary.
Really not a surprise, but frustrating nonetheless.

For Monday, I have a catering job in the evening and The Ex will be helping me cook in the morning. She was rather frustrated that we did not have time to fuck yesterday so we will probably spend some time cooking and some time fucking Monday morning. (actually, I am going to try to get a good bit of the cooking done between today and tomorrow to make Monday less stressful)

Is my wedding anniversary. I assume we will go out to dinner tonight and maybe again this weekend to celebrate with different friends. We have tickets for Wicked for next week as well. What I assume will not be part of the celebration if sex
The Ex is coming over today for lunch and we are supposed to have some 'fun' so at least that.
Got a busy weekend with a few hours of work both Saturday and Sunday and then a big event to cater on Monday evening.

**Edit**
So The Wife gets up this morning and is all 'lovey dovey' with me rubbing and kissing on me which is certainly not normal. and gives me a anniversary card that seems to promise more attention. It says to the effect of ' I know i do not pay enough attention to you and I will do better. Needless to say, I am not holding my breath as things have not changed for over 10 years and we have had many discussions about the lack of sexual activity where she indicated that she would make an effort.
hmmmmmmmmm we will see. Updates later or in the AM depending on how the day goes.
Well, off to work now ....

The Wife asks how I slept (since we sleep in separate rooms) and I usually answer 'fine' when what I really want to say is 'ok, but it would have been so much better if I had a woman to curl up to and make love' but that would not get me anywhere. Then today, she bitches because The Ex spent the day sitting on the sofa working. She says it upsets her that The Ex spends more time in 'her' home that she does. I was like, this is one time when she just sat here and kept the birds company while she got some work done. PLEASE just chill out.
Sorry - just my bitch of the day!

The Wife was working on cleaning her office (at home) and I, once again, made moves on her sexually and she continued to shoot me down. Now, ok, she really did need to get things finished up in her office and she asked me if she should quit working to go with me and I said no, I was just trying to remind her that it had been over 8 weeks since I had made love to my wife which got an awww type of response but nothing indicating that would change. As we went to bed, I hesitated thinking she might say, join me and lets make love but no, that did not happen. Oh well .... I did not expect things to change, but I do keep trying and meanwhile I will continue to fuck The Ex whenever I can. (and I have started browsing CL for opportunities)