And then she says what she said last night ....
'You Better not Wake me up in the morning!'

Of course she has said that she likes waking up to me and I should join her in bed in the morning occasionally......

Yeah, Right

So after fucking yesterday, The Ex commented that she tried to be quieter when she came because 'it is not ladylike' to be so vocal. I chuckled and told her (again) that I like her being loud as it is an indication that I am doing something right and that she is enjoying it!

The Ex spent some time with me today while I baked for my new business (Breads and Cookies). She had to run a few errands then came back and showered before we went upstairs to fuck. She laid down on the bed and I lightly sucked on her nipples before moving down to eat her. Ate her for a few minutes until she came with her usual scream and then moved to fuck her. (Before we got started, she asked if I still had condoms as she is concerned about the vasectomy and obviously she cannot afford to get pregnant) I went to pull on the condom and she said no, forget it and just get in me. I did as requested and she said if I wanted to I could pull out and cum on her stomach. After fucking her for a bit, I realized that I was about to cum so I pulled out and came just above her bikini line but the cum got into her hair and would not come out. She ended up getting back into the shower to get clean. Good fuck, but we were somewhat rushed as she had to get her youngest from school.

Well, her tattoos are healing up well and they really are sexxy (If you like ink) but still no sex. I had sort of hoped that there would be some action when we were out of town this past weekend, but no such luck. Waiting on The Ex to come over this morning for breakfast and ??. She did say that she wanted to fuck last week before I left but we did not have time so hopefully she is still thinking the same thing.

Sunday we went to a local tattoo show. On the way there, I again started a discussion about our *lack of* sex like. She was like ' well we had sex just a few weeks ago' to which I answered 'no, it was more like 5 weeks ago' she responded that she did not realize it had been that long but made no offer to remedy the situation, just said that she was not paying attention to time (in other words she does not really care to have sex).
While at the show, she decided to get ..... hold on now ..... Nipple Tattoos! Absolutely Blew My Mind!!!!!! Quite pretty but she is extremely sore! Her reasoning for wanting this was that she was them in the artist portfolio and since she had breast surgery does not like her nipples. In talking to her friend about it after the fact, she said that her nipples were never very pretty and were worse after the surgery (which was pretty messed up) I replied that I had always and continued to like her nipples but did like the new ink. Amazingly I do have photos and will post them.

We did have some more discussion about our *lack of* sex life where I mentioned that I did not like to wake her on weekend mornings and she said that she liked waking up to me but I take that with a grain of salt since she may like waking up next to me but never makes any effor tto improve our sex life.

Since I last fucked The Wife. Was thinking about giving it a shot last night but at 11:00 when we were going to bed, she announced that she was going to color her hair. Since we sleep in separate rooms and I was going to see about joining her, I decided to just go to 'my' room since I know how long the hair coloring process takes.
All of that being said, I ended up sleeping in 'my' room upstairs. Now it is 7:00 AM and I am considering going downstairs in a bit to take a shot at her. -- Not sure if I really have the energy --
Either way, later today we are going to a tattoo show in town which should be interesting.

A few nights ago The Wife and I went out to dinner with some friends and had a pretty nice dinner then she started complaining about me to them. A bit of background .... I am in business with my parents and last week got into an argument with them in which they blamed me for some legal troubles which are not my fault. This made me rather depressed and when she came home on Wednesday evening she wanted to discuss a day trip on Saturday to which I replied that we do not have the money and I am too depressed to discuss it. W e l l ..... apparently that upset her so much that she cried herself to sleep so she starts going off to our friends about this. The upshot of it is that apparently I am not allowed to be depressed. It doesn't matter that we sleep in separate rooms and rarely have sex, apparently I have nothing to be depressed about and must make sure to keep a happy face so SHE is ok.
I am just a bit pissed that she even feels this way and that she brought it up in front of our friends.
Oh, well, life goes on.....

I really want to write a detailed blog because I have a lot on my mind that I need to share here, but I am not feeling inspired. I have been writing it in my mind for the past 24 hours and will probably get it out in the next 24.

The Ex came over today for lunch and a fuck. This is the first time that we have fucked with the intention of me cumming in her since I had my surgery. It was sort of the 'usual' program which in this case is not a problem. I started off sucking on her wonderful tits, moved down to eat her to her usual screaming orgasm and that is where it changed ..... instead of a brief pause where I pull on a condom, I simply moved up and worked my (more swollen than usual) dick into her. Truly all I can say is WOW!!! It has been so long since we fucked bareback worry free - the feeling was incredible her wetness around my hard dick and I was able to hold off on cumming for quite a bit, while we were fucking we conversed a bit on how good it felt and that it really does feel better to both her and me. I think we were both a bit surprised by how long I lasted especially since I had not jerked off this morning and it was just amazing when I finally made the decision to pump her hard and cum. After I did play with the cum that was leaking out of her a bit. Perhaps next time we will have time for me to eat her after the act so I can finally enjoy a cream pie.
I have been testing the taste of my cum and it seems a bit milder since I had my surgery which is interesting.

Well, as of this last week, The Wife has quit taking The Pill. So far it has not made a difference in our sex life. Yesterday she was complaining that she did not feel well while we were out and I asked if there was anything I could do to which she replied 'no, I got my period and since I stopped taking The Pill, it seems to be slightly worse than normal'. Of course, that means absolutely NO sex for a few days since she does not like to fuck during that time even though (if The Ex i s any example) it would make things more comfortable.
Question for the ladies - Is there a difference in your period between when you have been on the pill VS not on the pill? I am curious.