Yesterday I had to move back downstairs to sleep with The Wife as the MIL is coming to visit for 3 weeks. Cleaned the upstairs room and moved all my stuff back downstairs. Bedtime came and I did mention that I figured since we were sleeping in the same bed perhaps we would actually have sex. Her response was that it had not been that long. I corrected her that we had only slept together one time since my surgery, she said not 2 and I corrected her and said nope - only one time in about 13 weeks. Her 'reasoning' was first her tit tatoos and then that she hurt her back, well I pointed out that she got the tats 2 or 3 weeks after the surgery. She kept making excuses none of which really made sense.
End result, I fingered her for a bit and she played with me and we did fuck to a surprisingly strong orgasm for both of us although I was having a bit of a time staying hard as she sis not seem so into the whole thing. I guess some sex is better than no sex.

The Wife was out to see TSO with her girlfriend so The Ex came over for dinner with her daughter and our son. Earlier I was kidding around with her and once again asked her for a BJ at some point. She said she just has a problem taking me in her mouth after I have been 'in' another woman. I pointed out that it has now been over 3 months and that is unlikely to change. She said she will think about it .... I am not giving up hope

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So he Wife came home and I went down to say hello. She was complaining how cold her bed was and I pointed out that it was warmer upstairs she said that she cannot sleep 'up there'. I said that if she wanted, I would keep her warm and she said that sounded good. Ok - so here I am thinking SEX! Who am I kidding, she 'used me' for warmth and promptly went to sleep leaving me totally frustrated so once she was asleep, I got out of bed and went back to my lair horny as he11. Hopefully she will wake up at some point and realize that I am gone, but I doubt it.

She has been helping me with my business again and today we took time to have sort of a 'quickie'. Not the slow, casual, unhurried sex that we have had a few times recently which is so much more enjoyable, but quick, eat me till I cum then fuck me till you cum and let's get going sex.
No real complaint about it, but I have gotten a bit spoiled over the past few weeks.

Huh - just realized it IS Hump Day! so I succeeded!

We went over to The Daughters house for a family Thanksgiving feast which was really nice and, although I really enjoy cooking for the family, it was a welcome break. After, we did go to wally-world for a few minutes but decided not to fight the crowds for what we were after.
Came home and watched TV. As I was headed upstairs The Wife asked if I wanted to sleep in her bed so I said yes (boy was I surprised). Well .... we went to bed and I tried to cuddle up to her and she did respond a bit. I said that I was hoping to make love and her response was 'in the morning' --- Of Course! Well, she knows that I cannot sleep in like she does so here it is *Morning* and I am at the computer while she continues to sleep.
I WILL go back to the bedroom in a few minutes to see if I can rouse her, but doubt that it will be memorable.
Ah Well .... Happy Thanksgiving to all of my NN friends.

Well, I was just checking and today is exactly 11 months that I have been sleeping upstairs separate from The Wife. She has slept upstairs with only 1 time. Oh, well I guess that is the way it is. We will HAVE to sleep together for a few weeks when her Mother is here next month, so that should be interesting.

IN the best way
The Ex came over today and we talked while I was baking then spent about 30 minutes in the hot tub before going upstairs for the 'usual' me eating her to a screaming orgasm and then fucking her till she cums again and I climax. The odd thing is that i seem to be lasting longer without the condoms than I did when I had to wear them. She did complain that she is getting somewhat sore from the regular activity. hmmm - at least she is not saying that she wants to stop!
she did ask what she can do to make herself 'prettier' for me and I told her nothing. Actually, I will probably ask to trim her bush a bit but that is really all. If she REALLY wants to do something for me, she could give me a BJ.

has been a busy day - regular job, now baking starting with Rum balls and now moving on to Banana Bread. Turned the heater on in the Hot Tub as The Ex is supposed to come over in the AM for some 'fun'. It seems that we are finding time to be more relaxed and that is so much better than the hurried 'eat me / fuck me / clean up and get dressed' that we have a habit of doing. Hopefully, tomorrow will be breakfast, 30 - 45 min in the Hot Tub and another 30 - 45 in bed.
She still annoys me with some things but she is such a good fuck!

Came by today to shower so I took a moment to suck on her wonderful nipples - wanted more, but she was short on time. She got her period (yea) not that I was really worried, but the vasectomy is still rather a 'new' thing and she was concerned since she is extremely fertile. Well, we fucked (I think) 3 times since her last period and she is not pregnant although I only came in her 1 of those times. Hopefully she will calm down and let me start cumming in her on a regular basis so I can eventually eat a creampie from her.

It has now been 9 weeks since I last had any 'activity' with The Wife!
Oh well..... staying busy with work and the occasional fuck with The Ex.

The Ex came over this morning and we spend about 30 or so minutes in the hot tub even though it was not really warm enough. it was fun, we were both naked and I was playing with her tits/nipples most of the time. About 25 minutes in, I realized that there were roofers working across the field, now if I can see them, they can see me but I do not think they were paying any attention and we both kept our private parts under water. When it came time to get out, I insisted on getting out first and handing her a towel so she would not be exposed any more than necessary. After getting out, we went inside and upstairs where after she got warm, I sucked on her nipples for a few minutes before she 'pushed' me south. This was one of the most relaxing times we have had together in a long time and we were both intent on enjoying it to the fullest. I started with light licks and kept changing things including engulfing her entire pussy with my mouth and sticking my tongue as far in her as possible which seemed to really get her going. I wanted this to last and told her to not feel rushed and not to cum until she was really ready. I ended up eating her for 15 - 20 minutes until the volume of her moans started to increase, ending with a loud shout after which she pulled me up to enter her. I quickly plunged into her and proceeded to fuck her to another orgasm after which I came HARD. She commented that she could get addicted to this kind of activity and quality on my part. This was so much exertion that we both just lay there for a few minutes.
Once we had caught our breath, she went downstairs to shower and I washed up and got dressed and we both went to a business lunch. On our way back from lunch she commented that she cannot believe that The Wife would not want what she had experienced this morning. (LOL that makes me feel good)
Oh, well, at least I am getting good sex somewhere.