So it is after dinner and she has gone into the Kitchen to put the dishes in the sink, she is coming back and says 'can I get yo anything, another cup of coffee or something' my reply "nothing I can think of right now except maybe a Blow Job' Her response ..... Silence! No surprise there.
I was sort of hoping for SOME response even a negative one, but nothing, no response.

But there is really nothing to tell.
The Ex apparently really likes her job, so much that our sex life is on hold till further notice and The Wife still has no interest so nothing happening there. I have thought about trying to sleep with her, but do not really feel like being 'directly' rejected.

Since The Ex is working, I hardly see her at all so no sex with her and things have not changed with The Wife soooo living upstairs in 'my' room and just enjoying the ladies of NN who are generous enough to share their bodies.

Hope everyone has a great weekend

Well ... I do not need them anymore since I got 'snipped' but I was in the grocery store today and they had them on clearance and I was tempted as they had some 'fun' types - colored, ribbed, etc - but I did not get them, too much fun fucking bareback.

Yesterday I took the sheets off of 'my' bed to be washed and The Wife put them in fairly early and then by the end of the day they were dry - I did not notice this until late - The Wife went out with her girlfriend to a womens expo during the day and then met me as I was having a late lunch with The Ex and her kid. We all talked a bit about what we are going to do regarding our cell phones as we want to change providers and then went our separate ways. Later after dinner, she had 2 wine coolers and I figured that I might actually have a chance of getting laid, As we went to bed, she asked if I needed assistance putting the sheets on my bed and I replied that I figured I would just sleep with her, well, that turned out to be a pretty good idea as once she got to bed, I started kissing her and trying to get her 'started'. While I did not get any head, she did did play with me with her bullet and I ate her to (I think) at least 2 climaxes, she was even quieter than usual, so I am not really sure. Finally moved up to fuck her and we both came pretty much at the same time.
Of course, this follows when we were talking in the morning and she mentioned that she had been up early and decided not to get out of bed and I responded that she should have called or texted me and I would have joined her in bed - her reaction - I was not thinking about that - of course she was not, unless I start things and push it a bit, she does not seem to think about sex at all.

I guess with The Ex working that I will be checking out CL for a new FB. Does anyone have experience with that and any suggestions?

Which is basically a good thing, but she works during the day when we would normally be fooling around so it seems to be putting a stop to our sex life which is not such a good thing. But it is good that she is working although we will see how long it lasts.

Well .... Last night we went out and did our monthly mystery dinner thing and The Wife had a carafe of sangria. Now normally she does not get horny from wine (although I keep hoping she will) last night was different and maybe our anniversary and Valentines Day were part of it - who knows. I did notice before we left that she had cleared the 'junk' off of the bed so if I wanted, there was a place for me to sleep. We got home late as we usually do from these events and sat to watch the late news for a few minutes, finally put our birds to bed (covered the cages) and she went to bed - well I decided to follow her and was pleasantly surprised when she was receptive to my advances and was (sort of) kissing me back. She complained that her hands were cold so I moved one hand to my dick and she started to stroke me. After a few minutes, I changed position so I could finger her and moved so my dick was near her head. She began to suck on me a little bit - not as energetically as in the distant past, but some suck is better than no suck. I kept fingering her and after a bit moved to eat her while she kept playing with me. I decided to be aggressive with my oral assault and that seemed to have a good effect as she was writing and reacting in other ways to my tongue. She was getting wetter and wetter and moving around more as I went between sucking on her clit and sticking my tongue as deep into her hole as possible (which put my nose almost in her asshole). I also fingered her a bit when I was sucking on her clit. After a bit of this and when I did not think either of us could stand any more, I moved up and fucked her. We were both so worked up that neither of us lasted long and we both came with a scream/growl. I can honestly say that this was one of the best sessions with The Wife in a long, long time.
I do not expect a repeat performance any time soon, but I am grateful for this one.

Well .... The show was great last night, we both enjoyed it. This morning she seemed somewhat down, but when queried, denied being down or anything being wrong. Against my better judgement, because I do not think she appreciates it, I stopped and got her some very expensive chocolates, a special cookie, flowers and a card. I doubt that this will buy me sex, but at least I am doing the 'right thing' for the holiday.

The Wife and I have tickets to Wicked. I am really looking forward to finally seeing this show. Purchased the tickets as a anniversary / VT day gift. Do not really expect to get laid anytime soon by The Wife, but I am just taking life as it is presented.