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TNBuilder

I live a busy life but would like an occasional discreet encounter. Please do not send me a friend request if you do not have a picture posted. I am really more interested in having Ladies than Men (unless you give me a good reason). Good news is that I got 'snipped' a few years ago so I can go bareback without any worries of getting my lover pregnant. Makes things so much more enjoyable for both of us.

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Monday, August 12, 2013, 6:13:31 PM- The past weekend

Well, last Thursday our A/C quit (for the downstairs of the house) I offered to The Wife that she could sleep upstairs with me to stay cool but she declined. Friday was no fun but on Saturday we got it fixed. Late saturady afternoon, we made it out to run errands including a stop at the lumber yard to get plywood to re-inforce the bed upstairs. Surprisingly, Saturday evening, she did join me upstairs (first time in over 8 months). We were both tired and went quickly to sleep. I have gotten used to sleeping alone and did not sleep very well and woke up with mixed feelings Sunday morning. Wanting to fuck her but also wanting to just get up and leave her to realize how it feels to be rejected. Sex drive overcame me and I made the effort and ate her for a bit followed with fingering her and then a brief fuck. Of course, by Sunday evening things were back to normal with her sleeping in 'her' room and me alone upstairs. Pretty much what I expected.

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"well..at least ya got it!..Now ya gotta start the count all over again! You get no sympathy now its only been 2 nights!~ lol"- Northern Star

Monday, July 29, 2013, 9:09:28 PM- Outside today

The Ex came over and after breakfast and some real work, she was ready to fuck. She wanted to fuck on my back deck, but knowing that my neighbor was doing yard work made me quite nervous and jr basically had stage fright so we ended up in my room upstairs where we had a nice but short fuck. She was quite nervous about hurting me since I am only 10 days out from the surgery but there was no issue with pain. Looking forward to more later this week and if my neighbor is not home, perhaps we will get into the Hot Tub as well.

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Monday, July 29, 2013, 4:13:59 AM- Hot Tubbing again

Yesterday we had to take down and cut up a large tree which we (with the assistance of my son) did in about 90 minutes. It was so badly eaten by termites that it just exploded when it hit the ground. This morning we really felt it! This evening when we got home, The Wife said it was time to sit in the hot tub to ease the pain in her muscles so who am I to disagree? While in the tub, I again brought up the thought if getting sexxy in the tub and she said she would never consider having sex or anything like it in a hot tub as it is too messy. Since when is she such a prude? Oh well..... one can dream. Will probably have some hot action in the tub with The Ex at some point anyway.

Sunday, July 28, 2013, 5:20:13 AM- The Wife had a dream

When I got up this morning I started with the usual morning stuff and after a bit The Wife came out of her room to join me She said she did not sleep well because she had a 'weird' dream. I inquired what it was about and she said that in the dream she found out that I was cheating on her. Hmmmm Well, I am sleeping with The Ex and in a way, since we were married and have known each other for over 30 years it does not really feel like cheating. That and the fact that we have been fucking pretty regularly for over 5 years now and The Wife has lost most of her interest in sex for over 8 years.

Saturday, July 27, 2013, 4:01:41 AM- Friday ...

Well, still have not had a chance to 'test out' the revised equipment except for jerking off a few times this week. The Ex now refers to it as 'Thing one and Thing two' and she has promised that we will put them thru their paces on Monday.
This afternoon, I informed The Wife that I would be waiting for her naked in the hot tub when she got home. This announcement did not get a very warm reception (no surprise) and when she got home I was actually in the house naked but with a towel around my waist she, followed me out to the tub still dressed from work and sat in a lounge chair as I got in the tub naked. She sat and talked to me for a bit then went inside. I almost fell asleep in the tub waiting for her to return and when she did it was with a sport bra top and some type of bottom - minimal skin showing. She did later explain that she had 'started' and did not want to bleed in the tub which explains her bad attitude for the past few weeks. We did sit together in the tub for about an hour then went inside to make dinner and watch TV for a while.

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Tuesday, July 23, 2013, 4:18:59 AM- The Weekend

I tried to get things 'started' with The Wife on Sunday, sort of fooling around with her boobs and telling her that we should go back to bed and fool around since it was day 3 from when I had the surgery. Actually she came out wearing a pretty tight top without a bra and her nipples showing, so I simply tried to play with them telling her that I was trying to 'turn her on' (LOL) she pushed me away and I said something about we should go back to bed and test out my modified equipment. Well ..... as expected, she pushed me away and said 'some other time' ahhh somehow I doubt it.
This morning The Ex came by as usual and was asking about the surgery so I told her what I had experienced and showed her the scars - really still the stitches -. She admitted that she wanted to fool around but was not feeling up to it. We are working together tomorrow and will have breakfast at my house so we will see what happens.
I am sort of wondering if anyone wants me to post a pic of my dick with the stitches still in. not really horrible, but may be interesting to some. If you want me to, post or message me and I will try to do it tomorrow

Saturday, July 20, 2013, 12:27:20 PM- snip, sniip

Well, 24 hours ago I was at the doctor getting my vasectomy. I was worried about pain and swelling or whatever ..... Well, I sat most of the day with frozen peas on 'the boys' and there was surprisingly little pain and only minor discomfort. Woke up this morning and still no pain. This may be easier than I expected.
The Doc said no sex till Sunday/Monday so it is likely to be a quiet weekend.
Hope everyone has a great and sexxy weekend!

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Wednesday, July 17, 2013, 10:16:32 PM- The Ex

Came by this morning and we worked on a few things for business. When that was done, i made her some breakfast and we talked a bit about my vasectomy that is coming up this Friday. She is concerned about it especially since I have not met the doctor just checked his references on BBB and Angies List. I made a point of telling her that I had resisted jerking off this morning in hopes of fucking and she asked what it would take to get me to completely stop jerking off. Would we have to have sex every day or every other day? I answered that, as she knows, I have always had a high sex drive, but if she wanted to commit to having regular sex, I would definitely do my best to not jerk off.
Hmmmmm.... Could be interesting.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013, 3:50:55 AM- realization

I realized that my earlier blog might have come across as *mean*. It was not meant that way - we spent a huge amount of money on her surgery and the follow up surgery part of it was my inheritance from my grandfather. It would not be so bad but she makes absolutely no effort to get the weight back off and it just frustrates me to no end.

Tuesday, July 16, 2013, 9:21:26 PM- Interesting discussion

Had a brief, but interesting discussion with The Ex earlier today. She asked since I am getting 'sniped' this friday and The Wife is quitting Birth Control pills that if she suddenly had a renewed interest in sex would I join in and my answer was that it was unlikely. I think it would be a while before I am really ready to have a regular sexual relationship with her for a number of reasons.
1) She needs to know what it feels like to be ignored
2) She needs to take care of herself and loose weight (I know this sounds shallow, but we spent a huge amount of money on weight loss surgery and follow up surgery and she makes little to no attempt to loose the weight that she re-gained)
3) See #1

I would eventually like to have a regular sexual relationship with The Wife as we did early on, but it will be awhile before that would happen I think.

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