The Wife was out to see TSO with her girlfriend so The Ex came over for dinner with her daughter and our son. Earlier I was kidding around with her and once again asked her for a BJ at some point. She said she just has a problem taking me in her mouth after I have been 'in' another woman. I pointed out that it has now been over 3 months and that is unlikely to change. She said she will think about it .... I am not giving up hope

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So he Wife came home and I went down to say hello. She was complaining how cold her bed was and I pointed out that it was warmer upstairs she said that she cannot sleep 'up there'. I said that if she wanted, I would keep her warm and she said that sounded good. Ok - so here I am thinking SEX! Who am I kidding, she 'used me' for warmth and promptly went to sleep leaving me totally frustrated so once she was asleep, I got out of bed and went back to my lair horny as he11. Hopefully she will wake up at some point and realize that I am gone, but I doubt it.