We are on a 10 day 'true' vacation. As relaxing as possible considering there is family involved. I sort of assumed that there would be sex involved a few times since her hip is doing much better and that had been the 'excuse' for the past year. Well, we did fuck once and it was sort of ok, we have had better and she did not seem that into it. We are headed home starting today (driving with our travel trailer) so it is safe to assume that there will be no more fucking on THIS vacation as tonight we will be overnighting in a parking lot in our trailer and should be home by Sunday afternoon/evening.
Oh, well, once we are home we are there for 2 weeks, then we head out of town for my shoulder surgery. I do not want to upset her too much between now and then since I will need her care during recovery, but early next year there will have to be another discussion about consistency of intimacy and whether she really has an interest or is just going through the motions.

Sunday morning, i got up earlier than her as usual and went to play on my computer for a while then went to wake her a bit before 8. I got in bed and she grudgingly got up to go to the bathroom and came back to bed where we fooled around a bit and although her hip so we could not really fuck, I got her in an odd position where I could rub my dick on her now, wet pussy and came that way.

Wednesday night when we went to bed, The Wife made a point of guiding my hand to her pussy and showing me how smooth she had shaved herself but then said she was tired and had to get up early . Did not make me happy, but she promised that we would follow through on Friday night. I pointed out that her hair grows and she would not be quite as smooth by Friday. Well, on to Friday ... I worked a long day and did not get home till after 10, came home, showered and decompressed while watching the local news. We went to bed around 10:30 and I set the sleep timer on our bedroom tv to 60 minutes while she got ready for bed. She came to bed after about 10 minutes or so with her sleep shirt on and almost as soon as she lay down, she said 'I guess I should take this shirt off' My answer was that if we were going to fuck then she should which she did. We started with her playing with me and us kissing which led to her blowing me and me fingering her and then eating her to at least 1 (maybe 2) orgasms. I felt like I was going to cum but prefer to do so while fucking so I moved to fuck her and fucked her to another orgasm. Unfortunately, I did not cum but I kept going while she came again at which point she said her hip was too sore to continue like we were (missionary). She went to blow me again and I was eating her but for whatever reason, i was not able to cum - perhaps some of my meds are having odd side effects - but she did cum again. Ultimately the TV turned of and we continued having sexxy fun for about 20-30 minutes more but I still could not cum. Oh well, At least I had fun pleasuring her. She was still sore when I got home from work on Saturday so I did not push anything when we went to bed. Hoping to continue the fun tonight.

I have worked a Long Weekend and gotten home Friday and Saturday after 10PM. Saturday night we went to bed with her spooning me and holding my dick which, many times feels somewhat like a tease because it rarely if ever leads to any satisfaction. Sunday when we went to bed, I was determined that if she in any way initiated 'loving' she would follow thru (not in a xxxxxxxxxx way, but just not allowing her to bait me and then leave me hanging) well, she did start things and then was like 'my sleep aid is kicking in' well, my response was to move to start seriously making love to her - move where she can play with my dick and I can finger / eat her which I did. Ended up fucking her to a loud and hard cum. Almost immediately after she came, I started moving faster to cum as well, but my leg cramped up which put a hold on things. We did take a pause during which she sucked me a bit more and as my leg cramp went away, we went to fuck again she came again and I finally did as well. She went to the bathroom and fell asleep almost as soon as she got back in bed. Not a bad way to end the weekend.

We went out of town for 24 hours (left Saturday afternoon and returned Sunday) I had hoped that Sunday morning we would fuck and it seemed that things were headed in that direction, but she was being 'lazy' and not, I guess, in any hurry when after getting me all worked up, she decided we needed to go down and get breakfast. Well, that ended anything - Hard Stop (pun intended). Oh well.

Well, Saturday I worked almost 16 hours and was totally worn out - got home a bit after 11, showered and then finally got to bed a bit after Midnight. Not surprisingly this led to be sleeping in and NOT getting up at my usual 5 AM. Woke up around 8 or a bit after and The Wife woke up about the same time. She was 'loving on me' and I made it clear that I was not in the mood to be teased, that if she was going to start, she needed to finish (she has a habit of getting me worked up and then saying 'time to get the day started'). Well, she went to go pee and came back to bed explaining that she was too sore from walking to spread her legs (still recovering from hip replacement surgery) but would suck me off. She moved to give me a BJ and I went to eat her - ended up basically fucking her with my thumb while I was eating her and she was blowing me. She had an amazingly strong orgasm and I ended up cumming on her tits from the BJ.
All in all, a pretty good way to start my Sunday.

Yesterday was exactly 1 month after The Wife hip surgery and for the past few nights she has been up to her 'old tricks' of playing with me when we go to bed but not getting me off which leaves me quite frustrated. Last night she started again and I said 'If you are starting this, you need to be ready to finish' ..... Well, to my surprise she ended up blowing me and then we had a decent fuck. I licked her for a few minutes - would have eaten her more, but she wanted to fuck.

In other news .... The Ex had breast cancer surgery Thursday and in a few weeks we will know more about how that will transpire.

The $10,000 Question, of course, is if this is a 'one off'' or will be a regular occurrence. Only time will tell.

Here we are 2 weeks out from her surgery and she is moving around better. Mentioned yesterday that although there is pain / discomfort from the surgery, there is no more hip pain and that she cannot wait to 'Spread Her Legs' for me soon. Unfortunately, I find that statement somewhat funny as she has not wanted to do this for about 20 years now. I guess we will see with time if she is being truthful.
Meanwhile, The Ex is dealing with Breast Cancer and we have been just too busy to have any 'private time'

Well, The Wife had her hip replacement surgery so I am pretty sure that means at least another 4 - 6 weeks of no sex (I get it, she has to heal) and The Ex has been diagnosed with Breast Cancer so she is also having surgery and then in December I am having surgery - WOW This sucks.
Hopefully things even out a bit .......

AAAAnnnnnddd just to keep up the count, it is now 15 weeks since any 'real' activity. It is funny because she (the Wife) makes comments like she wants me, but her actions prove different.

Well, I have decided that I will be trying to make some decisions about moving forward in early January 2022. This has been a year of reckoning with The Wife as far as no sex. Right now, we are at (I think) 13 or 14 weeks with no sex except for one BJ. She has said a few times that she misses the intimacy we had and I end up thinking 'WHAT???' but she is getting a hip replacement in 10 days and I am allowing for recovery time, then I get pretty major shoulder surgery in December. If things in the bedroom do not improve early next year, there will have to be changes. The WIfe has already been sort of put on notice and has made promises, but always seems to find a reason to not live up to them. I guess we will see.