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TNBuilder

I live a busy life but would like an occasional discreet encounter. Please do not send me a friend request if you do not have a picture posted. I am really more interested in having Ladies than Men (unless you give me a good reason). Good news is that I got 'snipped' a few years ago so I can go bareback without any worries of getting my lover pregnant. Makes things so much more enjoyable for both of us.

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Friday, February 18, 2022, 12:33:43 PM- Wednesday night

Tuesday evening I was really tired and found myself falling asleep on the sofa so decided to tell the Wife that I am going to bed early sort of hoping that she might follow but she did not, instead staying up to watch the Olympics and the shit show that is the Russian figure skating. When we were talking the next day I pointed out that what she was watching was pointless and that I had hoped for her to follow me and she apologized but I did not put much weight in the apology. Wednesday we went to bed at our usual time after watching the late news. I was not expecting any sexual activity as it has been under a month and we have a house guest (we average every 6 weeks - sometimes longer. Well .... She starts playing with my dick and goes to suck me and, well, off to the races we go. She sucked on me for a while, I sucked on her tits and pussy for a bit and then we fucked I am not sure if it was a guilt fuck and sort of feel it may have been, and it was not the best sex we have had, but it is sex. How sad is that statement.

Friday, February 11, 2022, 11:44:43 AM- Anniversary

Our anniversary was this past weekend and, no surprise, no sex. She did promise that she would do a sexy dance for me again (even though she said she felt silly the last time) but somehow she seems too tired every evening. He mother is coming to stay with us for about 2 months starting tonight (I adore her mom) so I sort of assume that will mean 2 more months without sex. We will see, part of the time she is here will be a few weeks camping in Florida so perhaps when her mom is not sleeping in the camper with us there will be some opportunities. Oh, well.
The Ex is still fighting Cancer and a few other health issues but has expressed that if given the opportunity she would like to hook up again - that really is a mixed bag for me, as good as it is to fuck her, I truly wish she would find a partner to stay with and not rely on me as much as she does.

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"Sorry to hear. I can understand both the sexual frustrations you have as well as the issue with the ex. My ex wife (recently divorced and still under the same roof) has tried to get me to have sex with her. There have been times when I eagerly complied, but I've found that every time I do things seem to be worse the next day. I know I'm not going to be able to get sex anywhere else, without paying for it, so it's a win-lose situation for me. I hope for the best for you."- Saturnfinger1

Friday, January 28, 2022, 11:28:04 AM- Thursday night

Well, last night (Thursday night) after my surgeon gave me permission to take off my brace, we went out for a nice dinner and cane back to the hotel to watch tv for a bit. I was worn out and fell asleep on the sofa so we went to bed early. The Wife came out of the bathroom and surprised me with a little bit of a dance as she slipped off her 'night shirt' I was surprised to find that she was wearing a new Teddy. We ended up playing for over an hour - she had what I believe to be 3 orgasms and she sucked on my dick for quite a while. Since my right arm is still not working quite right, the positions were a bit odd, but I fingered her while she used her vibrator and although it was not a comfortable position for me, I did manage to eat her for a while. We finished up with a good fuck (x2) where we both came.
All in all, a pretty good way to finish off the week. The big question now, is if this will be repeated on a regular basis more often than once every 4 - 6 weeks.
Time will tell.

Wednesday, January 26, 2022, 11:01:01 AM- Followup with my Dr.

I am headed back to Atlanta for my 6 week followup on the shoulder surgery and he is supposed to let me take the shoulder brace off at this point - I am tired of it - and hopefully that will make The Wife willing to have sex again but who knows. We had another 'talk' about the lack of activity and she agreed that it needs to change so I purchased a book and a few other things to try to spice it up and create reminders. She continues to 'Tease' the things that she will do, but as in the past finds a way to avoid them when the time comes. As much as I intended for January of 2022 to be the sort of jumping off point if things did not change, we have both had our medical issues over the past few months so I am trying to be understanding. That being said, we are almost past that point and she really will have no more excuses within the next few months.

Saturday, January 22, 2022, 12:42:37 PM- moving back to the bed from the recliner

The Wife has been saying that she wants me to move back from the recliner (needed due to shoulder surgery) so I have moved back for the past few nights. While I was in the recliner, she would get me set up with blankets so I did not get cold which I appreciate and then before she went to the bed, she would give me a nice kiss goodnight. As expected when i move back to the bed, the kisses went away. This is like 6 years ago when I was still sleeping in our upstairs room and she would always give me a good kiss before I went to bed but not when we were sleeping together. She admitted to me that it was because the kiss when we were together could lead to 'more'. Am I surprised? not at all. Still not sure where things will go this year, but we have needed each other this year due to surgeries and recovery. I am just tired!

Monday, January 17, 2022, 12:25:11 PM- Out of town

We went out of town for the weekend and I slept in the bed instead of the sofa thinking that *maybe* there would be sex, but NOPE - NOTHING. she even sort of teased that she would model a new pair of boots I got her but she was too *tired* Oh, well. One cannot help but to hope. It was an overall nice weekend with family.

Saturday, January 1, 2022, 1:03:55 PM- NYE

Well, we went out on New Years Eve to the theater and dinner and I was hoping that we would have end of year/new year sex at or around midnight. Since my shoulder surgery I have been sleeping in a recliner in the bedroom on Dr. orders but it is not real comfortable and he said as long as I refrain from rolling around and keep my arm brace on I can sleep in the bed so I figured I would give it a shot and hope for some sex as well. The Wife was/seemed happy that I was back in bed and cuddled up to me stroking my dick and then went to sleep. Oh well, it was almost 12:30 AM anyway. I did manage to sleep in the bed pretty well so will try again tonight.
Edit ... I went to the bedroom shortly after writing this to wake her up and we did end up having some fun, for whatever reason she did not want to fuck, but she did give ma a good BJ/HJ and I ate her for a few minutes. When it came time to go to bed, I tried to sleep in the bed, but my shoulder was too painful so I ended up in the recliner.

Thursday, December 23, 2021, 11:56:18 AM- I am back

not a lot to say since I am typing with one hand. Had a pretty decent fuck the night before surgery (12/11) but nothing since then - no surprise - I fully expect it to be at least another month before anything else happens.

Thursday, December 23, 2021, 11:46:49 AM- I am back

Tuesday, December 7, 2021, 12:05:28 PM- Next Monday

I will be having surgery to repair my torn rotator cuff (and more damage) from a fall I took in May. I may not be around much for a while, but hope to be back in 3 or 4 weeks.

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