It has been an interesting couple of weeks. Last Tuesday I slipped and tore my Rotator Cuff which makes it rather difficult to cook so I ended up hiring a cook which is expensive and not really in my budget.
Anyway, it has been a couple of weeks since The Ex and I fucked and last week we would have had time but she was hesitant and when I asked why, she explained that her 'Kitty' (her words - lol) was a bit sore from our last time I pointed out that whenever we are rushed that seems to happen so we need to take more time so she can be better lubricated and that perhaps more activity would help as well. Since I am not working today, I am hoping for a bit more relaxed time with her - we will see.

Got in Friday evening and had no trouble setting up. sat around and relaxed and I made a nice light(ish) dinner. We went to bed early and she came to bed saying 'I don't really need to get dressed to come to bed. do I? I did not understand the point, but obviously, I said 'No'. she got in bed and I figured this was an invitation for sex, but initially was going to pass but she started rubbing herself on me so I turned over and started playing with her. sucking on her tits and she was fondling me. She started sucking me, so I went to eat her which seemed to be having the desired effect and her BJ was as good as usual, but after she appeared to cum once or twice, I wanted to cum in her pussy since she does not swallow. Well, she has been having hip issues so I guess this was not so comfortable for her, but we did have a good fuck. I got up earlier than her on Saturday morning and later she came out naked which I loved, I went over and played with her tits and told her how much I appreciated her coming out like that and what I wanted to do to her but she said not with her hip pain so that was the end of that.
Not a bad weekend and I did offer to pay for the weight loss system that has worked for her in the past but I am not sure she will do that even though it would probably solve the hip issues.

Well, after a 2 week 'dry spell' with The Ex, we finally managed to find time to fuck yesterday and WOW. While things with her are pretty predictable, it is still fun. I spent some time sucking her tits and kissing her before licking my way to her pussy where I spent a while before she started to moan and scream as she came hard. Immediately after that I moved up and fucked her - I was hard as steel this time - we fucked for probably about 5 minutes before I came. All in all, a better than average fuck with her. If I could only convince her to give me a BJ but oh, well.
Heading out camping with The Wife this evening for the weekend so we will see how that goes.

After writing my blog yesterday, I decided to go in and try to wake her up since it was Sunday morning and we like to watch CBS Sunday morning. Figured we could watch it in bed and maybe have some fun as well. I got in bed and made sure to warm my hands before touching her and she did wake up when I turned on the TV so we were watching the show and I was trying to get her started - she seemed a bit willing as she was kissing me and such but when I tried to finger her she was keeping her legs closed. Around the time the show ended (90 minutes for those not familiar with the show) she was playing with my dick and then says ' well, I guess we should get up and get the day started' but keeps playing with me. I responded that it would be nice if she would finish what she started and she replied that I did not seem interested. I pointed out that she was the one working on me but that when I tried to play with her she did not accept it so I gave up. She sort of laughed about that and basically agreed that we would fuck. Not exactly how I wanted it to happen and I probably should have just gotten out of bed and said forget it.
I guess that makes 9x in 4 months - lol.

To avoid having to go back over the entire year to keep track of how many times The Wife and I have fucked, I figured since we are about 1/4 of the way through the year and I should tally it up so being 'generous', based on my previous blogs for this year, I find that we have managed to fuck 8 times in 4 months. this averages 2x a month which is still not an acceptable level for me. I realize that some have sex daily (I would not turn that down) and some have much less than me or may be in a totally dead bedroom.
I am somewhat hopeful that she will wake up in a willing mood, but not really optimistic.

I had a decent day at work yesterday and figured I would make a nice dinner (I am a chef after all) since The Wife had to work in her office and I know that is stressful. I made Hungarian Goulash and she was so thankful and complimentary. I am thinking, I made her feel good with dinner and perhaps I would get some loving at bedtime, but NOPE - NOTHING. I realize that so far things are better then in past years, but this is not acceptable and if another week goes by, I am writing her another letter (since discussions do not seem to work).
Meanwhile, The Ex had too many things to do for us to get together yesterday.

Wednesday evening, I was just sore all over. When we went to bed, The Wife asked how I was and I said everything was sore and not able to be used - well, except for one part that I would like her to check out her response was to get into bed and go to sleep. I fear that we are moving backwards from the initial progress after 2 attempts on my part and two rather snarky replies. I get it that she is working hard but so am I and when I go out of my way to get nice things for her and treat her like a queen, I sort of expect some affection - more than a peck on the lips good morning.

Well, today (Friday) is my Birthday so yesterday The Ex decided to give me some birthday 'Nookie'. After work we showered together as we do most Thursdays and followed that up with heading to bed where as usual, I sucked on her sweet tits and then ate her pussy till she came. I went to fuck her, but as happens on occasion, was not hard enough - she was determined that I would absolutely fuck her on my birthday and held my dick into her pussy and worked it around till I got hard which was pretty amazing after which I fucked her till I came HARD and she came again.
sort of thought The Wife might want to offer me some birthday loving but I fell asleep on the sofa and when I did go to bed, she took a while to follow so nothing happened there. Our God Daughter will be with us tonight so I have no idea if anything will happen tonight either.

Again on Friday night our God Daughter spent the night and I had to be up and out of the house super early and did not get home till 10:30 pm or a bit later - super long day. God Daughter spent the night again on Saturday so I figured that was the end of sex for the weekend but to my surprise The Wife actually texted me when she woke up on Sunday morning to come back to bed which I did quickly. We had a nice, if quick fuck with her blowing me and she had one or two orgasms while I came in her. Based on past experience, I call this a win.

Well, we did not fuck that Friday night because our God Daughter was staying with us and well... The Wife tends to be loud. We did, however go out of town for Saturday night and had a pretty good fuck in the hotel. I guess my problem right now is that I am holding back a bit because I feel that she is initiating this to keep me from leaving, not because she really wants the sex. Time will tell.