The Ex came over for breakfast today and I had offered her a massage when we spoke yesterday so she took me up on the offer. I had hoped to turn the massage into a 'quickie' but she was not up for it . Instedad she offered to let me get myself of but she did not want to cum so I pulled on a rubber and did just that. Definetly not my usual routine, but she is like that sometimes, since I make her feel good she wants to meke me feel good. Just difficult getting excited when I know that she is just 'letting' me do it to make me feel good and that she will get nothing out of it.

I got up early to sneak out and get The Wife her last Christmas gift (a set of tri color bangle bracelets that she had seen a picture of)about halfway to the store, my phone rings and it is her asking where I am going. I explained that I was on a mission to get her last gift but would gladly turn around if she wanted. She said 'no go ahead and get what you need to get'. Well, I got to the store and they were not open so I turned around and went home. Went into the bedroom and she sort of indicated that she wanted me to get undressed and get in bed - who am I to argue - so I did exactly that and after cuddling for about 30 - 45 minutes she sat up and removed her sleep shirt (which is quite rare) and grabbed her bullett to stimulate me. I tried to reach her pussy but that was not happening. I let her stimulate me for probably 10 minutes or so then told her that if she kept that up, I would cum before I got inside her so I got up and moved to fuck her which I did for a while before we both came.
Not a bad fuck and somewhat more inspired than usual, but still not what I wold hope for.

Apparently yesterday was 'Flirt with TNB' day. First in the grocery store as I was selecting vegetables for the dinner that I had planned a good looking lady about my age (or maybe a little older) then I went to get a haircut and the stylist was flirting like crazy and gave me a substantial discount (so I gave her a generous tip). Of course The Wife was not far away either time so I could not have acted on it even if I was comfortable doing that. It did make for an interesting afternoon.
The Wife seems more and more comfortable with me sleeping upstairs as I had mentioned that I needed a handheld shower attachment for the shower so while we were at Costco she was one that was on sale and bought it for me.

So last week, The Wife comes home and tells me that her best friend (who introduced us)had told her that she and her husband were sleeping in seperate rooms. she then suggests that since she is snoring at night perhaps I should sleep upstairs so I cna get a good nights rest. Well ..... If I had suggested this she would have gone nuts! I said no problem and have been sleeping up there for about a week now. pretty much enjoying it except that I need to add some better support to the mattress. Even better, I can shower as soon as I wake up at 4 AM and not bother her.
Additionally, this is the bed where I prefer to take The Ex for our sessions so this bed has some really nice memories.
Funny that The Wife now insists on a goodnight kiss before I go upstairs and makes 'sad faces' at me as I go up. I really cannot figure her out anymore, but perhaps after a bit of this she will try to 'get things started' I guess only time will tell.
Oh, and it has officially been 6 weeks since the last bed activity with The Wife. There is a chance that THe Ex and I will spend some time together tomorrow which would be quite welcome.

Well, although we wanted to, The Ex and I never did get together this past week. She was not feeling great, and my schedule was exceptionally crazy. Luckilly, she was feeling somewhat better by the end of the week and we are hoping to find time to get together next week.

Well, we ended up at a Hunakah party with The Kids, Grandkids and The Ex and went out to dinner with them all for Pizza. Came home and we were both totally worn out. Watched The Amazing Race and the News and went to bed. I figured since it had been a fairly relaxing day, I would 'take a shot' at getting some, as I began to rub her back, she complained about a headache. I asked if she had taken anything and she said not since Breakfast well that put an end to things so I rubbed her back for a few more minutes and then turned around and went to sleep.

Well, it has been almost a month now (only 2 days short) since I last fucked The Wife, but I have fucked The Ex twice in that time. Being that it is usually at least 6 weeks between 'sessions' with The Wife, I am not holding out much hope, but we do have a big Christmas party tonight and perhaps that will put her in the mood.
One can hope ...... (sort of)

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The Ex came by although she was later than expected. When she got here, she headed to the shower so she could be clean for me (which I appreciate) and then we went upstairs (I had turned the heat up earlier to make it comfortable). We got naked and got into bed where I sucked on her wonderful tits for a bit until she pushed me down toward her pussy, I took the hint and went to eat her, spent about 10 minutes munching on her while she tried not to cum as she enjoys the 'lead up' so much. She kept asking if it was ok for to not cum and I said I hoped she would hold it off so I could keep eating her. After about 10 minutes, she said that she could not hold off any longer and started humping on my mouth as she started to reach her climax. As she climaxed I moved my tounge toward her hole to lap up her liquids, she said 'Get up here and put it in me' so I grabbed the condom, put it on and fucked her as I told her that I had a large load saved up for her. She kept saying do it harder, do it harder which I did. After a few minutes of this, I said I could not hold back anymore and that I was cumming she said puch harder in me which I did as I came. Pretty much filled the condom even though it was my second cum of the day.
We both got up and cleaned ourselves up so we would not smell like 'sex' since we both had to go back to work.
I would say this is a great way to start the week!

Went out of town to visit my folks and my sister (and her son). Visiting my family is always stressful as my mom and I do not get along very well but this was an exception. Had a really good visit but did not get to fuck The Wife (as expected since she RARELY will fuck when we are visiting or even in a hotel). Came back Sunday evening and she got a sort of nasty email from my Dad telling her that she needs to loose weight which she knows but will not do anything about. Per plan, The Ex is coming over this morning for us to have what I hope to be a really good fuck since I have not even jerked off since last Wednesday (except for this morning) I should have a pretty good load for her. Hoping that she shows up soon so we do not get rushed.

Well, I did end up fucking The Wife last night. Rather uninspired as usual (on her part).