Well, the weekend was pretty good, kept hinting (strongly) to The Wife that we should make love, even offered to skip a TV show and throw her on the bed to do unmentionable things to her and her response was there is too much stuff on the bed, I pointed out that it could be moved to the floor and she ignored me. Made a point of telling her that it would be great if she would join me up stairs at some point and that, too was summarily ignored. Even stayed in bed till after 9:00 AM on Sunday morning hoping that she would get her ASS out of bed to join me and no luck. Oh, well, I knew what to expect. Good news is that The Ex and I have what I believe to be pretty solid plans for tomorrow morning and I have a new box of condoms!
The reality was that it was a good weekend just no sex. We had our monthly Mystery Dinner theater that I act in and spent time with some friends on Sunday afternoon.
To be clear, I am not writing this to complain, but more to keep my own memories clear. Comments are welcome and if you do not understand, please read back a few blogs and you will get an understanding of what I am about.

Just waiting on The Ex to get her for her shower and some great sex. Gonna try to get some pics this time and *maybe* a vid as well.

This afternoon, I was on the phone with The Ex and I asked her when I would be able to give her her Birthday present. She asked what I was talking about so I reminded her how much she had loved her B-Day Lunch and that I had promised her multiple orgasms as her REAL present. I suggested tomorrow or Friday but she is too busy so I said that although she would have gotten quite upset with me in the past for suggesting it, that we needed to put it on the schedule and what day would work for her. Her answer was 9:00 AM next Tuesday so we both put it in our schedule and hopefully everything will go as planned and I will treat her to a multitude of orgasms - Of course, I do reap the benefits of this as she and I both agreed.
On another note, my blog has now been viewed over 2,000 times!

Nope, I did not get laid, but I did sign a contract for a very large project that will give me a major commission boost in about 3 or 4 months.
Might actually take a short vacation after that!

Went with The Wife to her checkup last week and discussed me getting 'snipped' seems logical from a price standpoint as even without insurance it is only $500 +/-. Of course my main reason for wanting it is that it will allow The Ex and I to go bareback and then I can eat my creampie out of her. YEA. Hopefully I will get it scheduled in a month or so.

Well, today was the ex's birthday so I took her out for Lunch yesterday, afterwards as we were driving home, she was saying how happy the lunch made her and I said that I really wanted to give her the gift of multiple orgasms, she grinned and said 'that sounds good' I answered yes and that we would have to set aside some time next week for that gift.

Well, Things went pretty much as expected. Nice dinner with The Wife and then home to watch TV. At 10:30 (as usual) we both go to seperate rooms.
In fairness, she is getting better from a sinus infection and I think I am just starting to get sick from one - but like most men, I would give a good shot at sex if I was on my deathbed.

Well, I am taking The Wife out to a nice Valentines Day Dinner at a local cooking school - 3 course dinner for 2 only costs $25! Was going to take The Ex there for Lunch but we ended up on different sides of town.
Not really expecting to 'get any' from The Wife, but one can hope especially since it is Valentines Day and I am getting her a nice dinner.

I had gotten so used to updating a few times a week, but the past week I have just not felt up to it. Lots giong on at work and a lot of thoughts in my head that I could not sort out well enough to put into a blog, but I am now going to try.
Last weekend (a week ago) Sunday morning, I went down and did manage to fuck The Wife, not as good as the previous time, but an acceptable session (no BJ this time). Ended up feeling conflicted about sex with The Ex vs sex with The Wife, more on that later.
Last Thursday was my wedding anniversary so I sent The Wife flowers to her work which surprised her. That evening, I had a late sales call and then The Ex came over so we could get some work done. As she was getting ready to leave she told me quietly to have a good evening and that she hoped The Sife and I had 'fun' I pointed out that I appreciated the thought but it was unlikely. Well, I was right, not even a hint of action. When I spoke to The Ex in the AM, I reminded her of her wishes and told her that my expectations of no activity were correct. She seemed surprised but I reminded her that it was just not part of my regular activity with The Wife. This past weekend, there was absolutely NO activity - not even a hint, however on Saturday, The Wife made an appointment for her annual checkup and since it was last year after that checkup that checkup that she suggested that I should get a vasectomy, I suggested that I will join her to have a discussion with her doctor about that for myself since I ABSOLUTELY do not want any more children and would love to be bareback with The Ex (plus THe Wife could stop taking Birth Control Pills which might improve her attitude toward sex a little bit).
Ok, long blog post and I will try to add more details that are missing later this week.

For anyone who was wondering, I have ont left, I have been browsing the blogs and commenting occasionally, but have not felt up to saying anything much. I will try to fill in the blanks tonight or over the weekend.