I'm talking about a different kind of selfie, as in
Self Promotion.
My friends like to self promote on Facebook.
Whether it's promoting their business, or eatery, or even a book they've written,
they unabashedly post pictures of what they're selling,
which is themselves.
On the one hand, I'm happy to see an old friend doing well.
On the other hand,
its a bit of bragging...
with a touch of rubbing it in your face because they've become successful (at least on the surface).
Am I jealous?
A little - that's human nature.
But when the puffery becomes constant,
I tend to get the attitude of 'yeah, yeah, so what's going on in your personal life?'
And then I think:
If this is what they want, to be defined by accomplishments,
then so be it.
I can be happy for them...
and scroll right on by.
Life is too short to linger on, in my opinion, trivialities.
And so it goes.
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