The Wife and I got home at almost the same time yesterday and were both changing out of work clothes into our relaxed clothes. I had dumped the clean clothing on the bed earlier in an attempt to find clean socks. I made a joke that sex was always considered dirty but if we fucked on top of the clean clothing it was not so dirty. Not really sure where it went from there, but I ended up tweaking her nipples and next thing I knew we were on the bed. I had to pull some clothes out from under her and the phone charging cord that she leaves on the bed, but I ended up fucking her to at least 2 powerful orgasms and she had a third as I came. It was a nice Monday afternoon surprise.
I am thinking that maybe I just need to be a bit more 'dominant' in initiating sex, although that is not really in my nature. Hmmmm.

So I pointed out to The Wife last night that it was Oral Sex Day (6th day of 9th month) and her response was well you got yours over the weekend so don't get your hopes up. Oh, well, so after the snarky remark last week about me getting too frisky and then the pretty good sex over the weekend, now this remark. My response was 'oh, so we are back to once a month now?' which is generally the frequency (maybe once every 3 weeks) and she sort of did not disagree.
Well, if that is to be the case (and I am really doing everything I can to be a loving and attentive husband) then I guess we are back to where we were 3 years ago and I may just start looking for a Fuck buddy. the only constraint is 'time' I work too many hours but we will see ........

There have been a few 'quickies' over the past month, but nothing of note, and then last week we did have one and I tried to get things started the next morning and was told that I was 'getting too frisky' so I totally backed off. yesterday, The Wife came out of the bedroom in a bra and panties and asked me some weird question as we were getting ready to head out for errands. I answered and went back to whatever I was doing. We were headed to the hardware store after that and she asked me what I thought of the new bra, well my answer was I did not really pay attention since she had told me I was getting too frisky the previous week. she answered that she was 'kidding' and I should not take it so serious - how the hell else would you expect me to respond to that statement.
Well, we ran our errands and when we got home she strips and starts showing off the new bra and panty set to me. I admit it is nice and a front closure makes it even better. We did not end up fucking, but she sucked me off and I fingered both her pussy with 2 fingers at one point and then one finger in ther pussy and one in her ass which she seemed to greatly enjoy.
All in all, not a bad weekend.

I think it was Friday, but not sure. I woke up horny (like always). But this time, The Wife was as well. I played with her a bit and moved to fuck her. Started and she was wet and ready but our bed SUCKS for sex, so we had to re-position ourselves and I was no longer hard (sort of takes away from the moment) she pushed me back and sucked me back to ready and we started again and her leg cramps up - coitus interruptus - I go soft again and said let's just finish tonight, but she would not take no for an answer. she sucked me again and we continued where we had left off. I love the fact that she was not willing to let it 'end' . Oh, and in the end we both came quite hard and it was a good one.

Now, If we can just repeat at least a couple times a week.

I really enjoy 'wake up sex' I just wish mine included a partner.

Well, the weekend following her return, The Wife and I did fuck a few times, nothing particularly exciting except a quick end with doggy which is unusual for her (although she used to really enjoy it)

Last night, we had a decent fuck session with mutual oral and me fingering her to a rather explosive orgasm.

Wednesday evening The Wife returned from her trip, while I was sort of hoping for a fuck that evening, she was really worn out and fell asleep on the sofa early. Thursday morning, I woke up and messed around on the computer for a bit, then went back to bed to wake her up. Here is when I am really glad for the Kangaroo Pills. I woke her up and as I expected she was pretty horny. We ended up in a really good 69 and I finally could not concentrate on eating her so just let her blow me while I fingered her for a bit. I realized I was getting close so went to fuck her which I did for a bit. As I was going to fuck her I noticed a bit of my cum on the side of her mouth - absolutely one of the sexiest things I have seen - I kissed her and licked it off while we were fucking. I ended up fucking her 3 or 4 times and she came like crazy each time.
Unfortunately, I have to work today so I do not expect a repeat performance, but am hopeful for tomorrow.

Well, The Ex came by yesterday afternoon to let me know that she got out of her Jury Duty, so we will see what happens. She is talking about having dinner and what have you this evening ….. We will see.

Well, I had said that I did not want the distraction of sleeping with The Ex, but she expressed interest, so we made plans for Sunday night. She did come over but was not in the mood, so we sat and talked for a bit before going to sleep. She was set for jury Duty today and had planned to come back this evening for a fuck session, but wouldn't you know it, she gets selected and sequestered. All you have to do is be just a bit 'off center' and they will let you off of the jury, but not her --- Noooo. Not sure what is going to happen, but we will see.

Well, The Wife left for her yearly trip today and will be gone for 2 1/2 weeks. Past years, The Ex hung around, but I am not expecting that this year, partially because she is busy with her life and also because I do not need the distraction. I am busy with work and would rather have a few weeks alone.
I have been pretty upset with The Wife the past few weeks and need to try and figure out what I want to do moving forward. I know that we need to get counseling and she needs to make some decisions on how she wants to handle her / our life. She needs to loose weight for health reasons and seems to only want the easy way out in the form of weight loss surgery (the second time) and that is not the answer. She also needs to make a decision on our sex life and if it is gone or something that she is going to put effort into, I am tired of always being the instigator.