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TNBuilder

I live a busy life but would like an occasional discreet encounter. Please do not send me a friend request if you do not have a picture posted. I am really more interested in having Ladies than Men (unless you give me a good reason). Good news is that I got 'snipped' a few years ago so I can go bareback without any worries of getting my lover pregnant. Makes things so much more enjoyable for both of us.

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Sunday, December 16, 2018, 1:23:03 PM- vacation

Well The Wife and I went on a short vacation and I hoped that since we were without family on this one, there would be sex involved. A bit of background, she has had a post nasal drip thing going on for about 2 weeks, so I told her last weekend to go get a 'sinus cocktail' shot which she did not do so she now snores like a freight train to the point that if I want to sleep I have to go to another room. Guess where I have been sleeping on our vacation - on the sofa. Pointed out to her how wrong this is and she complained that she did not have time for and could not afford the shot. I TOLD HER I WOULD PAY FOR IT!

I am so frustrated!

Spent lots of money on this expecting it to be somewhat romantic but no dice. We have enjoyed touring Chicago and the weather was really amazing as was the food but the personal relationship time is lacking.

Just always excuses from her on why she did not do something and why things cannot change.

Just needed to vent - hope everyone had a good weekend !

Monday, December 10, 2018, 8:31:49 PM- Sunday

So yesterday The Wife comes out in just bra and panties (which she has showed me before) and asks how they look. My response is that they look quite nice but would look even better off of her. I go over and give her a kiss and slide my hand into the panties and start stroking her slit. I keep doing this and manage to push the panties down her legs. Her response was that if I kept this up perhaps we are not going out shopping (but with the attitude that she really wanted to get going and leave) I gave up and she got dressed. I was hoping that there would be a later opportunity, but no such luck. We got home and she was immediately busy with whatever and as usual would not go to bed before the late news had been watched.

On a slightly different note, I saw a reddit post with a man who got tired of his wife pushing him away and so he developed a spreadhseet to track the lack of willingness on her part. Google it, it is funny in an ironic sort of way.

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"yeah im sure tracking it helped him a lot"- Artistic

Saturday, December 8, 2018, 12:45:50 PM- once a month

Well, as I read over my blog from the past few months, I realize that I am averaging once a month fucking The Wife at this point. go back a few years when she realized that I was fucking The Ex and we were fucking at least 3 or 4 times a month (I would like even more than that), Unfortunately, unless I push things a bit nothing would happen. It has now been about 3 weeks since the last quickie. We are going on vacation next week for a few days, so we will see if that creates opportunity. Unfortunately, the last vacation we took, nothing happened at all even though we had more privacy than usual.
As far as The Ex, she stays busy and cannot seem to make time to catch up with me even for work when she always needs the money.

Monday, November 19, 2018, 11:09:26 PM- Surprise

Well, woke up early this morning because I had to pee, but went back to bed to try and get an extra hour of rest. Ended up waking up when The Wifes alarm went off and she did not get right out of bed, actually she rolled over and started cuddling with me which was a surprise. After a few minutes of sort of 'nothing' I simply reached and moved her hand to my dick which started things moving on a bit. After a few more minutes, we did end up fucking. a bit of a quickie and as I have said before, I prefer more foreplay, but I will have to get what I can get.
The Ex is supposed to come over Friday morning for about 45 minutes .... we will see

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"It pisses me off when i have to initiate sex every time,placing her hand on my cock just to let her know i want to fuck.Foreplay has very much disappeared and now is just lube her up and fuck till i cum, a bit sad."- srxwat4

Friday, November 9, 2018, 2:10:05 PM- still trying

I have had to get up super early for work most of this week, so no chance to fuck The Wife in teh AM, and she falls asleep as soon as her head hits the pillow at night. Thought I might have the opportunity this morning, but - NOPE - .
Spoke with The Ex yesterday and she said she would try to come over for us to fuck this morning, but she should have been here about 10 minutes ago and I have to shower and get tires for my truck and then off to work so I cannot wait (and she has to get to work anyway)

Well, i am off to shower and get my day started - Not working this weekend which is unusual, so we will see how things go with The Wife although I am not holding my breath.

Tuesday, October 23, 2018, 2:27:05 PM- quickie this morning

Well, after a few 'false starts' where The Wife did not feel that we had enough time, we did squeeze in a quickie this morning.
I guess it is better than nothing.

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"Makes you wonder whether it is better than nothing,quality sex or none at all."- srxwat4

Saturday, October 20, 2018, 11:23:18 AM- Earlier this week

Earlier this week (Monday / Tuesday?), we went to bed and I decided to try and get The Wife 'started'. Started kissing her and rubbing on her and then rolled over to be on top and started kissing my way South. She makes a comment that I should stop and I ask jokingly if there is something I would not normally find down there at which point she says that she has a tampon in and she is sorry, but we should be ok the next day. Well, here it is Saturday morning and no follow up from her. I am just tired of having to push for anything.
Just an update and my way of keeping a record of my lack of sex.

Thursday, September 27, 2018, 1:13:17 PM- 2 thoughts

First - The Ex still works with me occasionally and yesterday she asked me for a raise - I So want to respond the it is supposed to be her giving me a raise.

Second - for the umpteenth time, I got a message through NN saying that they would like to setup a meeting and before I could respond (48 hours) the account is deleted.

Life goes on

Tuesday, September 25, 2018, 1:23:25 PM- surprise yesterday

The Wife and I got home at almost the same time yesterday and were both changing out of work clothes into our relaxed clothes. I had dumped the clean clothing on the bed earlier in an attempt to find clean socks. I made a joke that sex was always considered dirty but if we fucked on top of the clean clothing it was not so dirty. Not really sure where it went from there, but I ended up tweaking her nipples and next thing I knew we were on the bed. I had to pull some clothes out from under her and the phone charging cord that she leaves on the bed, but I ended up fucking her to at least 2 powerful orgasms and she had a third as I came. It was a nice Monday afternoon surprise.
I am thinking that maybe I just need to be a bit more 'dominant' in initiating sex, although that is not really in my nature. Hmmmm.

Friday, September 7, 2018, 12:20:58 PM- Oral sex day

So I pointed out to The Wife last night that it was Oral Sex Day (6th day of 9th month) and her response was well you got yours over the weekend so don't get your hopes up. Oh, well, so after the snarky remark last week about me getting too frisky and then the pretty good sex over the weekend, now this remark. My response was 'oh, so we are back to once a month now?' which is generally the frequency (maybe once every 3 weeks) and she sort of did not disagree.
Well, if that is to be the case (and I am really doing everything I can to be a loving and attentive husband) then I guess we are back to where we were 3 years ago and I may just start looking for a Fuck buddy. the only constraint is 'time' I work too many hours but we will see ........

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