It should be an interesting 2 days. I have a travel trailer that we rent out and it has been rented by a movie company for the next 2 days - the interesting part is that I have to be there super early in the morning and then have to move it at night to a new location which means that I am going to overnight in it as well since they are located about an hour from home. The Ex suggested that she join me for this since The Wife does not want to go - who am I to say no to dome potentially good sex? So this afternoon, off we go plus she is working with me both days as well. I think she needs this slight 'break' as well as it has been a long time since she got out of town.
Hopefully I will have a positive update this weekend.

different thoughts than the past two updates ....
A few weeks ago The Wife was not feeling well and decided to not 'go to work' (in quotes since she works from home right now) since she knows that I am usually in my office across the house in the morning she texted me with this information - ok, no problem. Later we were talking about this and I have asked her for many years since I cannot 'sleep in' as she does to text me when she gets up and I will join her for some morning fun but she never has. I said why can she text me that she is not feeling well, but not to come back to bed? Her response was totally noncommittal but she said I had a point. I do not expect things on that issue to change, but, well, whatever I guess.
Just needed to get this off my chest.

We were on vacation (sort of - visiting my mom) a week ago and staying in a hotel. After a long drive of about 14 hours split over a day and a half we had dinner with family and went back to the hotel to rest. I usually get up early out of habit but on this particular Saturday I was so worn out that I slept in. At some point The Wife woke up and rolled over to me to start playing. We messed around for about 30 minutes just rubbing on each other and me sucking her tits and then ended up fucking and sucking for about another hour. Pretty darn good actually. fast forward to the following Friday (4 days ago) and I decided to massage her legs while we were watching TV and continued when we went to bed which led to some surprisingly good, if somewhat 'vanilla' sex - the next morning she was complaining about the bruises on her head from our iron headboard which has only happened a few times.
On both occasions, I know that she came at least once maybe twice. All in all, a surprisingly good 10 day period.

Last Friday we went to bed and as usual I was not expecting anything, but decided to see if I could get things going with The Wife (sometimes I wonder why I bother) she was surprisingly willing and we did fuck for a bit, she came 2 or 3 times but I was not able to cum - not sure why. It was nice and I was hoping that she would be feeling bad and perhaps make the first move on Saturday night but no such luck. she did make a sort of slightly snarky move about how much attention I pay to her tits, but whatever - she has known since day 1 that I am a tit man so she should not be surprised by that.

Twice this week, I tried to get things started with The Wife when we went to bed by playing with her tits and moving to finger her. Both times after just a few seconds, she said 'ouch' that was a hair as I was fingering her (second time was last night and she had shaved smooth). Both times I stopped and she made no comment for me to try again so more proof that she just does not care about improving our sex life. Oh well, I guess I get what I get.

Back in November we purchased a travel trailer but have not had an opportunity to take it out. Finally decided to go 'glamping' about 30 minutes from home last weekend. Setup on Friday afternoon and relaxed while figuring out how everything worked. Went to bed around our usual time and I was in the mood (when an I not?) Surprisingly, The Wife was quite willing and we did have a better than average fuck. I ate her, she sucked me, I fingered her and then we fucked and as best as I could tell, she had 2 or 3 orgasms. it was nice and we were on a new Hybrid Gel mattress that we had never slept on. As we were finishing, she expressed concern that we might have stained the mattress
I had hoped for a repeat either Saturday or Sunday night but no such luck.
I will call this weekend a win for the most part.

Woke up this past Friday and for whatever reason decided to just lay in bed for a bit until The Wife got up. She woke up and I decided to see if she was 'in the mood' well, she sort of was and while it was not a great fuck, we did fuck till we both came. Sometimes it is difficult to tell if she cums or not, other times she screams or squeezes me. This was one of the more quiet times, but I believe she came once or twice. She is still working from home so no chance to fuck The Ex at this point.

Well, we went to bed last night (Sunday) and sort of cuddled up as usual and I thought The Wife was going to go straight to sleep as usual, but decided to give things a shot. She said do we still have lube (I guess she was not in the mood for foreplay) so I found some and smeared it around her pussy while I fingered her and she sucked me a bit. After a few minutes I moved to fuck her and here is where it gets 'different' We ended up fucking for over 30 minutes and I could not cum - I guess because the lube eliminated much of the regular friction - I ended up fucking her to at least 3 good orgasms and then she added her vibe and that added another super strong orgasm. After that one I still had not cum so I went to eat her a bit and she went to sucking me. After a few more minutes I felt like perhaps I was getting close and fucked her again, this time, I did cum after about 5 more minutes or so and she came again as well.
All in all, this went on for somewhere between 30 & 45 minutes - pretty amazing overall especially considering how 'vanilla' our sex has been recently.

So the last time we (The Wife and I) fucked was April 8 so 3 weeks ago. Yesterday we decided to just stay at home and use Sunday to run errands. We were sitting around and she complained that she was cold (we were still in basically pj's) I jokingly said I can warm you up and went over and pretty much draped myself over her. While doing this I felt up her boobs a bit and started grinding on her and getting a hard on. I said I will do more to keep you warm if you were in some of the lingerie that I have purchased over the years. she sort of said maybe but made no move to change. I really hoped that this would end up leading to sex later on, but nothing happening.
I do occasionally think about purchasing sexxy stuff for her, but it never gets used and over the years have bought lots of stuff and know for a fact that she has thrown a bunch of it out so money down the drain.
Just so frustrating & frustrated.
Trying to schedule time with The Ex but with The Wife working from home that is difficult.

Since we got back from vacation, I have slept upstairs separate from The Wife since she was sick (not Corona) finally started sleeping together a few nights ago and this morning I woke up horny. Did not really think I would get anywhere but figured I would try. It was a quickie, but it was a decent fuck anyway. I think that was 6 weeks since the last one, maybe more.