Friday when we went to bed, I thought that since it has been most of a month, perhaps we might have sex so I started to stroke her pussy and play with her tits / kiss her neck etc ... her answer is simply Too Tired and she went to sleep within seconds of me stopping. Ok - long day so I figured try again on Saturday - I did sort of but again nothing happening. Sunday morning rolls around and when she gets up she is complaining about getting her period. This feels like a throwback to before we went to counseling 5 years ago when she seemed to constantly have her period to avoid sex. who knows......