I have found that sometimes it's better not to say anything at all than to anger or lose a friend from too much honesty.
Case in point:
I have a friend who comments on everything I say, whether it's relevent to the situation or not.
Just speaking to be heard is not conversing... I know you're there.
It pisses me off when you do it, and makes me not want to talk to you, unless I open up a can of vocal kick-ass!
I love honesty if it relates to what I'm saying, but sometimes? It's like the old saying...
discretion is the better part of valor.
Dig it?
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