I spent some time with The Ex, no piv, but I did eat her a couple of times and jerked off on her pussy and then ate her as she was quite worked up from that. All this ended up with me having massive anxiety about The Wife finding out so it will not happen again, it is simply not worth it to throw away what has now become a pretty decent marriage for some mediocre sex. When she got home The Wife was quite horny, but we got home too late from the airport to fuck, but the following night was a nice return to 'normalcy'

So right now, The Wife is out of town due to family issues, but last week before she left, we were sitting on the deck just relaxing (do not remember what else we were doing - probably playing on phones and reading. She went inside to get in more 'comfortable clothes' and was telling me to go change into shorts, but I was doing my thing on the phone. next thing I know she is sitting in the chair and pulled her shirt down and playing with her nipples - well, that got my attention! We ended up fooling around with me fingering her and eating her and her blowing me on the deck! WOW! I have been trying for many years to get her to fool around on the deck so this was s surprise. We ended up going inside to fuck which was definitely better than average. I am hoping that when she returns at the end of this week, she has built up similar desire.

Well, I spoke too soon, it has now been 2 weeks with little affection and no sex at all. Oh well .....

Well .... This past weekend was ... interesting. I was quite tired Saturday afternoon and The Wife convinced me to lay down on our bed and then she joined me - actually sat on me, I was naked and she had on underwear, she started grinding on me and we realized neither of us was going to get rest - lol. What ensued was almost 2 hours of sex, me eating her for over 45 minutes and good fucking. It was a surprise and we both enjoyed it - as best as I could figure she came 3 times.

Last weekend, we had a pretty decent fuck Saturday night and again this week. The Wife's father passed away unexpectedly, so she will have to travel to Germany soon but we are waiting on funeral arrangements.

I have been super busy and just not had time to update the Blog. Basically we have had some sort of sex about every weekend. I would much prefer twice a week, but that seems to be off the table. The Wife has initiated once in this time, which I truly enjoy, last week we were out of town and had a day where we just stayed in the hotel all day to relax and mid morning we ended up in bed with her riding me along with a bit of oral on both sides. It is situations like this that give me hope! All in all, I am glad we are having fairly regular sex, I just still feel that she is sort of going along to keep me happy.

I was hoping it would be Friday night so we could have 2 nights in a row, but The Wife felt ill after a family dinner on Friday. Soooo - When we went to bed Saturday things got started pretty quickly with a bit of oral on both sides and I put on the sleeve. We talked a bit during this time as well about me wanting her to learn to put the sleeve on me and me already looking for vibrating panties for her. I got it on and ate her some more while she played with me with the sleeve on (which is interesting) She ended up cumming strongly from me going down on her and I was close from the sleeve vibrating and her playing with me but I held off. I went and fucked her with the sleeve vibrating which seemed to drive her nuts and she came at least one more time from what I could tell. Then --- Leg cramp! Darn! We took a break and re started but I could not cum. I went to sleep still wearing the sleeve with it tucked between her ass cheeks which she indicated she enjoyed. Woke up in the middle of the night to pee and took it off. Woke up early on Sunday and hung on the FB for a bit then went to wake her up so I could cum which I did.

So when we opened up the sleeve, there was a remote and a battery. We assumed (never do that) that we needed to install the battery but did not want to do that at this point so used without it. Over the past few days I have taken it out and tried to figure out everything, found out how to charge it and found out the battery was already in the remote. Also found out it is Bluetooth Compatible so I loaded the app on my phone. Finally last night figured out how to turn it on and connect the Bluetooth. This will be interesting. As we were going to bed we started talking about future uses of it and she said I should wear it when we go out and she will control the remote - hmmmm- I said that perhaps we will start with doing that in the house but only if I can get her a set of panties with a remote control vibe in them as well. She is accepting of this idea. Life could get interesting. FWIW - I am not opposed to us both wearing these for a dinner out or maybe a trip to the casino.
We did discuss things like this in the past but she never followed thru with it.

I was honestly getting frustrated - 3 days in a row last week, The Wife indicated we would be fucking when we went to bed and it did not happen. Second night I was quite 'worked up' and she knew it and when I tried to get things going she just wanted to go to sleep but her response was like, 'oh alright let's get it over with' I said 'not with that attitude, but let's try again tomorrow night' well, tomorrow night rolled around and despite me making advances, she made it clear she wanted to go to sleep[. I DO understand that she is not supposed to be my 'sex slave' or anything, but getting me worked up and expecting only to cut things off sucks.
Anyway, on to last night, We started opening a few Christmas gifts with her mom after we ate dinner and watched It's A Wonderful Life, so a nice evening. When we went to bed, she handed me an Amazon box and said here is your next present. Of course, i knew it is the Penis Sleeve that she ordered and we were both curious on how it would work. It took a bit for me to get it on and she did blow me for part of that. I ate her for a while and it appeared that she had a small orgasm or two and I got surprisingly worked up eating her (she did play with my balls and the sleeve as well which probably added to my excitement. After a bit, I got some lube (needed with a sleeve) and started to fuck her. It was .... interesting .... There was actually more stimulation for me than I expected and it i, of course, larger than me at my best by probably 2" in length and about 1" in girth so it took a minute to get it in her, but she was rolling her eyes and moaning like crazy. The frustrating part for me is that I cannot thrust much, but I will learn with time. After about 10(?) minutes of fucking I was surprised that I came in the sleeve. We both got up to clean ourselves a bit and when we got back in bed, she got out her vibe and 'rubbed out' another orgasm. I really wanted to fuck her raw at this point as I was hard but she was too worn out.
I guess we will see where this goes with time.

This past Saturday I had to be up SUPER early for a catering job (around 3:45AM) The Wife does not get up early, but this time when my alarm went off, she woke up and rolled over to cuddle and play with me, started stroking me and we ended up with a fairly quick fuck - WOW what a surprise. I am not sure if I mentioned it in a previous blog, but I have been wearing a new cologne which is supposed to make women 'hornier' and it seems to be working to the point that she has specifically asked me to wear it more often. She is truly becoming almost insatiable. We both work lots of hours, so not like crazy sex all the time, but she is much more affectionate and 'willing' told me she will not turn me down if I want sex unless she is just too tired and honestly I think she would go along no matter what at this point. This is like a total 180 from the past 25 years (to understand just read my previous blogs). I can hope that this continues.
Additionally, as I have mentioned a few times, I have a bit of an ED issue and have tried numerous meds both prescription and herbal some of which work and some not so much but the problem has been that of 'planning'. I saw in our shared Amazon account that she got me a sleeve as a Christmas gift (lol) and I honestly I have somewhat mixed feelings, but whatever it takes to please her, Additionally, I am waiting on a new prescription from HIMS for an ED med that is a daily med which should eliminate thee 'planning' aspect.
She and I are talking more about our challenges and sex in general so things seem to be improving. The next few weeks should be interesting, I am not sure how the sleeve will work and it will definitely be larger and girthier than me so that should be interesting for her as well. Also interesting for me 'raw' after the sleeve as she will surely be a bit looser. She is a bit on the tight side just for my size so I am really curious how the sleeve will fit.
I will absolutely post a follow up as things progress.