It is interesting as I think about the difference between The Wife and The Ex. In many ways they are so much alike, but yet, so opposite. The Ex is rather petite standing just 5' 1" and The Wife is 5'9" full figured. With The Ex, I have no problem finding her clit - it becomes enlarged (although not oversized) and she cums quite easily. The Wife, on the other hand, has trouble sometimes finding her own clit and takes longer to cum. The Ex, tastes almost sweet (maybe because she keeps herself clean and makes sure to wash well before any sexual activity) whereas The Wife has a somewhat sour (not bad) taste.
In the right circumstances, they are both quite good in bed, but neither of them goes out of their way to initiate sex on a regular basis.
Recently, The Wife seems to have decided to tease me a bit, almost always sleeping without a top but if I try to initiate sex, she makes excuses as to why nothing will happen. Two weeks ago on Wednesday night when we went to bed I tried and she said she was too tired and to wait for the weekend and of course nothing happened. Last night when we went to bed, I figured since it was Saturday night, there was a good chance, but, nope. I tried getting things started and she shut things down. Here it is Sunday morning, 7:00 AM Fathers Day and I am here on NN, instead of having sex with The Wife. There is something wrong with this picture.
She leaves for another trip with her Mom in a bit over a week and will be gone for 2 weeks. The Ex has already indicated that we will fuck a bit during that time and I am looking forward to it. Another session in the Hot Tub like last year would be very welcome as that was AMAZING!
To be totally fair, I realize that we have a lot of stress in our daily lives, but sex is really, truly, good for your health. It does make it difficult that she insists on 'sleeping in' on the weekends and usually does not get up until after 9 AM and I cannot do that.

Last weekend, The Wife adn I had a pretty decent fuck a bit of oral for each of us and we both had pretty good orgasms. During the week, she made promises that there would be a repeat this weekend but yesterday she slept in until 9 Am and here it is Sunday and 7:30 and she is still sleeping (and snoring) so no action is likely. Two weeks from now, she goes on another of her trips with her mom and I am on my own again. The Ex seems to want to fuck pretty badly and I Do miss her taste so if we can make time, we certainly will fuck.

2 weeks from this coming Monday, I will change from running a food truck to running a restaurant. Big Change! It will probably limit my time on NN as I will be leaving my house at 6 AM most mornings until I get a fully trained staff. I will probably visit occasionally on afternoons and weekends, but I am not sure. Wish me luck, this is a big leap!

Well, had a crappy day at work Saturday and felt like my body took a beating by the time I got home. Did not feel so much better on Sunday but took The Wife our for a while. got home and had to take a nap. Luckily The Wife decided to join me and we ended up having a pretty good fuck where we did eat each other.
Was supposed to get together with The Ex today, but her kid is sick so no go on that.

I did fuck The Wife - a quickie in the morning before we left for work - not terribly satisfying, but, hey, sex is sex - but not really. I truly prefer a prolonged loving session where we are both fully satisfied and worn out.

2 Years ago today I had what was, apparently a very bad seizure. Not my first (due to a traumatic brain injury from about 30 years ago), but probably the worst I have had. It was followed by a major blow up with The Wife when she discovered that I had been fucking The Ex but we made it through that. At first, The Wife was like a sex crazed person. I guess trying to make up for no sex for quite a while, but now we are down to maybe once a month. Unfortunately, The Ex is so busy that we have little time to get together so my sex life is back down to minimal.
I have been on seizure meds since then and have been seizure free which is a good thing.

Not such a Hump Day as one would hope

I will have a colonoscopy and an upper endoscopy. Not thrilled, but this apparently goes along with getting older (and having decent insurance)

About 2 weeks ago The Wife was sort of complaining that she had not got her period and I jokingly said just wait it will happen while we are on vacation. Vacation comes and goes and no period. Now she starts to get worried (I had a vasectomy 4 years ago) and thinks she may be pregnant (but claims that she is not fucking anyone else which I sort of believe). I get her a Home Pregnancy Test and she is not pregnant - thankfully - .
Still cannot understand why she is so late .... Last night as we are going to bed and she has been giving me more attention than usual, so I am thinking that we are going to fuck, she comes out of the bathroom and says that she got her period. Well, glad that she did, but means no fucking.
Truly the first time in my life that I have been concerned about that possibility.
**EDIT** Last night as we were going to bed, she said that it was 2 months that she missed her period.........

Since my last update in early March, I think The Wife and I have fucked *maybe* twice. Once on a vacation a few weeks ago and maybe one more time that I forgot about. The Ex and I have made plans a few times, but keep having to put it off. Finally, today THe Ex did make it over and I got to suck on her wonderful tits and eat her to one of her screaming orgasms. Went to fuck her and could not as I simply had too much on my mind and we were running later than I was comfortable with. We ARE gonig to try to catch up again, so maybe.......
It is sort of funny, that I thought for a few minutes that The Wife and I were going to fuck last night since she got into bed fully nude, but nothing happening .....