TNBuilder's blog post - finally an update

Monday, February 11, 2013, 1:32:31 PM

I had gotten so used to updating a few times a week, but the past week I have just not felt up to it. Lots giong on at work and a lot of thoughts in my head that I could not sort out well enough to put into a blog, but I am now going to try.
Last weekend (a week ago) Sunday morning, I went down and did manage to fuck The Wife, not as good as the previous time, but an acceptable session (no BJ this time). Ended up feeling conflicted about sex with The Ex vs sex with The Wife, more on that later.
Last Thursday was my wedding anniversary so I sent The Wife flowers to her work which surprised her. That evening, I had a late sales call and then The Ex came over so we could get some work done. As she was getting ready to leave she told me quietly to have a good evening and that she hoped The Sife and I had 'fun' I pointed out that I appreciated the thought but it was unlikely. Well, I was right, not even a hint of action. When I spoke to The Ex in the AM, I reminded her of her wishes and told her that my expectations of no activity were correct. She seemed surprised but I reminded her that it was just not part of my regular activity with The Wife. This past weekend, there was absolutely NO activity - not even a hint, however on Saturday, The Wife made an appointment for her annual checkup and since it was last year after that checkup that checkup that she suggested that I should get a vasectomy, I suggested that I will join her to have a discussion with her doctor about that for myself since I ABSOLUTELY do not want any more children and would love to be bareback with The Ex (plus THe Wife could stop taking Birth Control Pills which might improve her attitude toward sex a little bit).
Ok, long blog post and I will try to add more details that are missing later this week.

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Northern Star on 11-Feb-13 14:14:41

Did ya ever think perhaps..its the affair with the ex that has dulled your wifes ambitions to be with you? Just wondered..

TNBuilder on 14-Feb-13 4:50:24

Sex with The Wife was terrific before we got married but came to a prompt halt shortly after the vows (deceptive advertising?). I did not start up with The Ex for a number of years after that anyways, kept trying to 'fix' things and thinking it was my fault somehow. Plus did not always see eye to eye with The Ex until she matured a bit more. Best as I know, The Wife has no idea of exactly what is going on.