Well, here I am 2 weeks of nothing sex wise. I *thought* with last night being the night before my birthday, she might be amorous, but she got in bed and went straight to sleep. Well, today IS my birthday and we have show tickets for Thursday so I am, as always, Forever hopeful. I did have a very frank discussion with The Ex and finally told her how badly she had damaged me and our kids. She took it and said she does not understand which I am not totally surprised about. I have determined that I WILL NOT sleep with her again - been quite a while anyway - and I do not need to add that to my list of concerns. |