Well, I have decided that I will be trying to make some decisions about moving forward in early January 2022. This has been a year of reckoning with The Wife as far as no sex. Right now, we are at (I think) 13 or 14 weeks with no sex except for one BJ. She has said a few times that she misses the intimacy we had and I end up thinking 'WHAT???' but she is getting a hip replacement in 10 days and I am allowing for recovery time, then I get pretty major shoulder surgery in December. If things in the bedroom do not improve early next year, there will have to be changes. The WIfe has already been sort of put on notice and has made promises, but always seems to find a reason to not live up to them. I guess we will see. |