Every New Years Eve, I act in a Mystery Dinner Theater and The Wife assists as a hostess (we actually do this monthly). On the way to dinner last night I am not sure how the discussion got onto sex but I mentioned that she was welcome to join me upstairs in 'my' room if she wanted any activity. Her complaint was that I am always up and about before her and usually in my office. I pointed out (once again) that she sleeps with her cell phone and could call me and say 'hey honey I am now awake why don't you join me?' she seemed confused by this idea, so I repeated it again and she seemed to 'get it'. I am not holding out too much hope that this will lead to more sex with The Wife but it was an interesting discussion - not that this basic discussion happens at least once or twice a year. Here is to a fantastic 2013 for everyone!