We had a lot to do including meeting with and training a new pet sitter for a few upcoming vacations. all the while, The Wife was being very disagreeable (wanted to say being a bitch but perhaps that is too strong) she interrupted me constantly and just wanted to argue about everything. later we were discussing some home improvements where we are planning to rebuild our deck and she said she would haul loads of gravel to put under the deck I pointed out that doing so would leave her in great pain and she said so what. My response was that our sex life sucks and I did not want her to have another excuse to make it worse to which she had no reply in other words, she does not really care. This fits in with previous conversations so it was not a surprise.