I call Artistic a friend but got to thinking about it and started to laugh. Artistic was hubby's friend. He just loved and loves her for being direct and to the point. So I got to reading and laughing at this amazing member and filed for joint custody. Hubby lost in the bedroom battle for retaining full custody of Artistic and she became my friend as well. One day soon I hope to see her back full steam on this site. She is a refreshing experience and I for one think we need that slap in the face now and then.