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marriedbi52
Non sexual spouse
14-Mar-18 18:56
If your spouse has become non sexual for whatever reason (mine- menopause) do you believe it's right to expect them to continue to be faithful & give up their sex life also?

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Artistic
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14-Mar-18 20:33
faithful yes

if your spouse would let you have another sexpartner,
its not cheating

Im guessing you dont chose a wife on sex only.
theres porn and toys (and NN)

if its that important, that you consider cheating you might be better of leaving?

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Devl Dick
5-Jul-18 13:52
Have you tried asking her to let you have a play partner ?

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marriedbi52
5-Jul-18 15:23
Devl Dick said: Have you tried asking her to let you have a play partner ?

I have. She's OK with my having men, but feels threatened by women. I need both, I'm bi, not gay...


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1dan
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My wife not interested in sex
12-Aug-22 15:30
marriedbi52 said:
Devl Dick said: Have you tried asking her to let you have a play partner ?

I have. She's OK with my having men, but feels threatened by women. I need both, I'm bi, not gay...

My wife is not interested in sex see is a very non sexual person me on the other hand are a highly sexual person and at times my wife's lack of sex makes me feel very unattractive .any advice thanks

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ddeuced
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24-Nov-22 05:49
I feel this thread but mine is not totally stopped its more like not into it like she used to be. When we met my wife was in her late teens and very promiscuous and exciting. After marriage and kids she does still want sex but it's not as often. I feel guilty that I often take care of myself due to my desires of multiple times a week vs her once a week.

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Artistic
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24-Nov-22 10:08
ddeuced said: I feel this thread but mine is not totally stopped its more like not into it like she used to be. When we met my wife was in her late teens and very promiscuous and exciting. After marriage and kids she does still want sex but it's not as often. I feel guilty that I often take care of myself due to my desires of multiple times a week vs her once a week.

why would you feel guilty about that?
but have you talked to her?

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raylynn99
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Same boat
25-Jul-23 01:17
My even admits that she has shut down.
Guess we are headed toward phase 2 of the discussion.

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PapaJim69
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8-Nov-23 13:24
I have been living the nonsexual life for 20 years now. I still love her but she is a hands off woman. We still sleep in the same bed but no touching is allowed. I resort to porn, masturbation, and other women who like older guys to fuck them.



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