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If you are reading this then thank you. I hope you do not get to bored with it.

I have been with my wife 14 years, married 9, and for about 9 years sex has at best been sporadic, the last few years it's fine down to less than once a month, which is really frustrating as I'm a horny kind of guy and love looking at porn and wanking as well as having sex and lots of it. We used to visit erotica together even played with other couples for a while and now.............

Sex I'd nothing to her, kidding I'd nothing, she has got depression, both parents died in the last 2 years, a degenerative back condition, that affects sleep and gives her pain regularly. As well as me banging on about being horny all the time.
Yet when we go on holiday there's no problem whatsoever, we fuck like rabbits even though our 2 kids are with us, so it's not like a dirty weekend away.

I wrote her a letter last week stating I am very near the end of my tether, I haven't got much more to give. I love her, she says she loves me. But I feel like my confidence is so low with the amount of knockbacks from her. I don't last long when we do have sex as I'm so wound up its like releasing a spring. So anyway she said she would try to show me how she feels. That was over a week ago. Nothing really has changed, I just hoped there might be a bit of urgency as I would be thinking Shit if I don't sort myself out then I'm going to lose him. Needless to say she'd just acting the same.

She is joining a weight loss program and starting exercise class to lose weight. Even though I love big curvy women anyway. And I'm supporting her,but I want sex I need regular sex. And I feel I'm in the wrong!

Opinions please. As blunt as you want.

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