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Age Gap
Ok, what is the largest age gap that you would have going into a relationship? Also is there a gap difference that is to large for today's society? I look forward to seeing if there is a difference in opinion between women and men.

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18 years.

I dated a former coworker 18 years my senior. She freaked when I asked her to marry me. Ended it. Life moved on.

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ten yrs the rule, plus three if the heart wants what the heart wants

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MookEndling said: ten yrs the rule, plus three if the heart wants what the heart wants

i agree, when they are young or old enough to be of another generation,
i kinda lose interest, was once "tricked"
when i was 46 a guy told me he was 31, but was 25, because he knew i wouldnt date him knowing,
i thought he was to young still but he looked older with a beard, had a nice chubby body and great butt LOL


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I'd say 10 years but I've known couples who had a larger gap.

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Really, if the love-?? is there age is not an issue per se. Maybe for having kids but otherwise many love age gap.

Some guys need Mommy.

Some chick's want xxxxxxxxx.

Some women like to dominate as Mommy.

Some guys like to feed their ego.

Some people just like kink.

Some people just want different.

Sometimes an age-gap love-?? happens right out of the blue and all that you can do is marry and live happily ever after.

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I’ve always wondered about that as well.

What about a middle life crisis and a dude marries a young lady. Along comes a child and when working bees at the local school are needed that kid’s father can’t do it because he’s older than the rest of the dads.

Terrible I know but that’s the reality.

And let’s be honest, it seems most middle life crisis’s affect males.

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We have 23 years. Doesn't seem to bother me at all.

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I dont think age gap is too important.
I did have a fling when I was 21 with a man who was in his 60's.

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More than 30 years.

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Age Gap
10 yrs here , And Yes, I have to say it does & can make a difference.
One wants it, the other one, maybe not so much...
or health issues of just getting older...

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