I love to see the whole person. Don’t get me wrong, I often enjoy a close up too, but there’s something nice about seeing a face.
From the other side, I love the idea of being recognised by someone and I often appear on the video chat with my face purposefully in frame. The idea that someone who knows me, who is also on here and like minded, sees me and contacts me is really hot. It really adds to the experience.
However, you have to know that anything that you post on the internet will have a life of its own and could turn up anywhere, even if you delete it here. So go into these things with that knowledge.
Having said that, I might start putting in clues…