Perhaps my post was a tad harsh, I could have worded it better, but I did not presume anything. I asked you if you could not talk to your husband about anything? So it appears you have talked to him,a key point that would have benefited in your original post. So you talked him about the lack of sex in your relationship, and his response is to shrug his shoulders and walk away, is this correct? It appears to be if, you have no answers from him. If this is the case than I believe there is a deeper problem between the two of you that needs to be resolved before the sex discussion is carried out. My personal belief is that sex is a very important part in a relationship. Taking this issue to a trained professional will be far more beneficial to you and your husband than asking for advice on an amateur nude community. As for my comment about you seeking sex from other men here. That is not an insult in anyway, you are free to do whatever you want, I'm just saying that your profile clearly reads that you are. If you two are in an open relationship than that's great, all I am saying is that if he knows you are seeking other men online than this could be the reason he lost interest in sex with you. Best of luck to you, I hope everything works out