Not sure about most women, but my wife is very anal phobic. She’s always worried about getting an infection. She’s prone to getting UTIs, so that’s made her extremely anal phobic. She also just thinks it’s dirty, and not in a good way, even though we wash quite well. It’s just her feelings on the matter.

I too wish more girls were into anal. Only met one who actually preferred it.

For a woman who craved anal, preferred anal? I’ve cum in my wife’s ass a million times, she could take it like a porn water but was never into it, truly enjoyed maybe twice. Now as we’ve gotten older she can’t take it at all. I’d love to have become a doctor and study why some people scream like they’re being split in two, others have orgasms. Wtf? As or me, I never get enough giving or getting.

I think it is all about the approach to anal sex. It has to be taken slowly with lots of lube and finger play or appropriate thin toys to start before eventually progressing to fucking.
I made the classic mistake when younger and having a go with my wife without fully prepping...it hurt and she has never been keen on us having full anal sex again. It doesn't help that I have a thick cock lol .
Still she will occasionally peg me, and loves me to rim her, so we do enjoy a variation on anal sex 😜

My wife isn’t too keen of my cock in her ass. But, she loves having me finger her ass and really enjoys a good rimming.

Mine too mate. She loves me fingerings her arse as I lick her clit. It always seems to give her a better orgasm. For her to let me fuck her arse she has to be really turned on like when I stop licking her before she orgasms. She's never said she doesn't like it but hasn't said she does neither.

Depends on the woman.

A trend now is Anal Only and women love it.

Other women just want rimming and some prefer a 🍑-rimming to you 👅 their Pussy but then want your 🥒 in their Pussy versus their 🍑.

Women under 25 are definitely opening the Back Door for contraception purposes plus they seem to thrive on it.

So, just depends on the woman.

I had a work colleague she was very into anal, while riding me she would lift up & then put my cock in her arse, she’d change holes many times in a session, then I introduced her to MFM but she wouldn’t let the other guy fuck her ass, while she was riding them I would finger her ass & feel his cock in her fanny, never actually managed to DP her but it was due to not trying tho, she did like both of us to cover her tits in cum.

I love anal, love rubbing my clit or playing with a toy while he's in my ass

My wife and I were regulars with doing her and she enjoyed it . These days it's just me

Im ok with it but know a lot who dont like it and some who have never tried it.

I would love to experience how it feels last time we tried all lubed up I split the wife's arsehole she had to go see a doctor and was in pain for months so I've got now chance 🥺

Size matters-seriously.

My wife is practically addicted to me rimming her Ass. Using her words, "I flat out LOVE it when you eat my Ass and I mean EAT IT!" Yet, we have yet to complete penetration because my well-endowed Cock can only go 1-inch into her Butthole. She says the sensory experience blows her mind but trying to ram it, like I can with her Pussy, would send her to the E.R. too. So, we stick with Oral, a hard-core Finger-Fucking of her Ass about 2-3 times a year and lots of Cock-play of teasing, slapping, pressing, just barely pushing in and she cannot get enough of it. I really think that if done right most women would find how much they LOVE for you to be all about their ASS!

My first serious GF loved anal. GF's after that either were short term GF's or didn't even want to try it.

I think the negativity is based on fear, mostly. Maybe a guy before you slammed it up her ass like a porn dude does, completely ignoring the fact that the porn gals prepare ahead of time. Too many pornos have the guy doing it without lube. That's BS, and asking for a woman (unless she's actually into that, particularly) to swear off anal forever.

With some it may be concerns about cleanliness. That can be overcome by education and preparation, but not all couples are into that, either.

Some of it just might think it's perverted. There are a lot of obstacles, especially if the woman is over 35 or so. The younger women are more into it, because porn has made it more acceptable as a form of sex, and I think the younger people are more educated about anal than the older demographics are, generally.

To me anal is fun. But if a woman doesn't want to do it, it's not a deal breaker, as long as the rest of the sex is good. I still like to use a finger in a woman's ass now and then, and if a woman won't even let me use a lubed finger there it doesn't score a lot of points with me, because I love the feel of it on my finger when licking her pussy. But the sex in general is more important to me. If the rest of it is good and hot, lack of anal play is not that great a loss.