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hammersy
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Is wanking the easier/better option
27-Mar-26 22:46
In light of the recent thread about Boring predictable Sex with a partner, it has me thinking.
I want to ask you aswell.

Is having a wank not only easier but also at times better?


Nothing turns me off more than a woman who "just lays there" , even if you are granted to "do anything you want"....
I feel the last thing I'm going to do is get involved an start having the time of my life just for pleasure..

It feels like sex is more than that-
But in saying this - I can have a Wank, fantasize about anything (harmlessly) an it actually feels really good.
Huge orgasms an big cum shots.

Sex, I can be hard but just seeing the lack of interest in her face or body language, instant turn off- an then by that stage we are just going through the motions-- seems strange.

To get personal, apart from our lack of sex connection (at times/fairly often) , we seem to get along well and can live together fine no drama..

Just starting to feel like this could be the way it goes.. lack of interest in sex UNTIL she wants a cock or to get off ..



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repsolrcv
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27-Mar-26 23:08
Easier and better have to agree with you

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MilesLong66
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28-Mar-26 07:20
I've found that I don't care to just "go through the motions". Masturbating is fine, but I really miss the intimacy that comes from a partner that participates

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markiebaby
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Is wanking the easier/better option
28-Mar-26 21:44
In the case of a woman just laying there, definitely yes. My wife is direct in saying she has no interest in sex. Our first few years we did have really enjoyable sex, including orgasms for both of us. But then she began just laying there, as the OP described. Getting no response was worse than no sex. At least with videos or reading there is some enjoyable input.

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newoutlook
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4-Apr-26 04:24
You may be right but, personally, a woman who just lays there and lets me do as I want turns me on

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JohannaSophia
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Is wanking the easier/better option
4-Apr-26 05:55
MilesLong66 said: I've found that I don't care to just "go through the motions". Masturbating is fine, but I really miss the intimacy that comes from a partner that participates

Agree! Especially enjoy kissing lips and pussies and being close after cumming!

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legsfeettoes
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4-Apr-26 07:23
If you're a woman and just lie there, your partner will start looking for someone who wants and enjoys participation. It way or may not be another woman. Has he suggested pegging?

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hammersy
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4-Apr-26 23:48
Very interesting , I'm at least glad some of you understand this situation.

An that it isn't only me.

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Helltoway1812
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13-Apr-26 03:21
I think I read the room wrong lol

I was thinking is it easier/better to just jerk off OR sticking your dick in say one (or two) strangers and hope you don't get caught

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Rabbit420
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13-Apr-26 20:32
If the woman that I am having sex with doesn't actively participate it ruins my orgasm. I can still cum from intercourse, but the orgasm are so mundane that I may as well be fucking a pocket pussy or a Fleshlight.
In cases like this masturbation is definitely much better!!!!! jerk jerk jerk

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Plain_Jane_K
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14-Apr-26 17:24
It is definitely easier and often better - but eventually I find I run out of fantasies and I'm not the kind of person that can just get off to get off.

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Stillkickin
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Oh yes
16-Apr-26 14:04
repsolrcv said: Easier and better have to agree with you
I once fucked a lady that just laid there and didn't move and was totally not interested in get involved in the act at all. I did not cum and wanted to leave as soon as possile
curse

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