I just don't understand how this would be fun for you 33racer33?
I can relate to the other guy.


The only reason I can understand for you wanting this, is that you
secretly want someone to steal her. If not, can you explain???

maybe he figures his wife now owes him the chance to fuck another chick

Honesty, I don't think I could. Anything we do sexual we do together. Its a 2 for 1 deal. Get her, you get me. Would anybody here complain about that?

-Bitty

i would be very excited if my wife went out on a date. and knowing that they were enjoying an intimate time together would be all the better.and when she came home.... i would want to lick her cum filled pussy

I cant imagine bewing married to someone who didnt have the confidence in himself to realise that there is a world of difference between sex and love.
We have always had an 'open' relationship and when I do meet other men he alwys know where I am and who with. Afterwards he know what we have been doing and loves it.

Foxy got it..... there is a massive difference between love and sex..

To be clear.. wife has had some extra marital fun - with full knowledge and agreement from me.. and we discussed it in detail before and after...

Trust is essential, honesty etc...

Wife wanted some fun with a guy who turned her on.. There are plenty of men consider it and too many who have affairs secretly.

It was a great time for us... she had a chance to be naughty- with permission and come home with a huge smile and wanting more.....

It depends on what you are into, strength of relationship, honesty etc. Its not for all - but it works for some/many....

Uhm, nope, not happening. And I'm not a subscriber to any of that. It's fine if that's your thing, but not for me.

ukshaver

You are right but be very careful using the word 'permission' you see what happens when either party does not have 'permission' they often go ahead and do what they want anyway, just behind the others back!! That is the reality of life

I would rather watch her fuck his cock

I think Foxy and UK both summed up what I would have said.

My gf had a little experience in this a while ago and thought it was a lot of fun.

Its not everyone's thing, but is fun if you like it... One has to make sure that everyone is on the same page however... no one wants to be a home wrecker...

i can understand completely why he enjoys it because my husband has let me have lovers on the side since 91. sometimes i go on fuck dates while hubby watches the kids and other times when we can find a sitter, hubby will join me and my male friend for a mfm threesome. when iam out alone on a date, hubbys at home thinking about how good iam getting it and knowing iam gonna give him all the details of my night out as he and i fuck our brains out later! sometimes i even have my friend take pics while he fucks me and then bring them home to tease him with! the most important thing is that you share every detail of it with hubby. this way it remains i thing you do as a couple rather then something that becomes more personal. the only 2 people in love should be husband and wife.

As some have mentioned, I think its fine if your into it but personally just not my cup of tea.

I think that njwifesandy has put it very well indeed. It should be honestly agreed upon, shared in every detail, with love between the main partners only.

Let her go?
Yes, last time she went with 4 guys and got a royal gang-bang!

Hrrmm, I don't really like the idea of of this. Having fun with other together, is ok, but having fun with others on their own doesn't work for me.

But hey, each to their own!

His only deal is I must tell him all the details from start to finish and he gets to dress me when he is home before I go out. We make it so much fun for both of us and he is very well taken care of for his trust and love of me. I always loved his comment that he has no worries as I am going home with him when the night ends.

"there is a world of difference between sex and love."

I'd assume there'd be more mature enough people here to realize that, so many get their own hackles up about the idea of their partner with another... That's a jealousy that's in their own heads and their own self confidence issues. To each their own, why judge? Especially when many open couples are so much in love they know to look past beastly lust, and also know how to have fun with it

What matters is what's between two minds and hearts that has nothing to do with what's in their pants.

But like I always say... If they have to ask, they'll never understand.

My ex wife had lots of boyfriends and went on dates. She would come home and give me all the details while I licked her pussy. It was incredibly sexy. Years go by and she feels like I pimped her out and the marriage ended. UNFAIR I never xxxxxx her to do anything.

I agree with terri469 and njwifesandy.

I'm with Sandy, they key is sharing it with hubby and being totally honest with each other. It all has to do with trust and being open.
I've been playing with my boss/hubby's best friend since 1993, in the last 15 years he and I have gone out quite a few times. Even got a motel room and spent the night. I'll go with him because of how close we all are together but, not with others, Hubby knows I work out of town with him and we share a room every time we are gone. He fucks me silly while we're gone and it goes both ways,,, lol I come home to hubby and attack as soon as I get in the door. I'd already been on the phone each night telling him what we had been doing and sending him pictures. Poor baby, sometimes he can't even stroke his dick while I'm gone because I put him in a cage before I leave (not often but, It's so fun knowing he' is wanting to stroke while talking to me or looking at pictures) I'm greedy, it's my cum and it will be saved until I get home.

I think it is hot and i can relate, especially if she comes home with cum in her pussy and lets me slide my cock in her cum filled pussy, it feels so good!!!! :

I would love to help with that! It can be more fun to watch her get her pussy filled and then jump in..

I absolutely would. When we were dating, she would play with a few co-workers she had back then. I always stayed so hard thinking of her and what she was doing on nights we weren't together. Over the years I've said she could have a boyfriend, but she hasn't done that. She has casually played with a handful of nice cocks along the way though, which I'm totally fine with. I love knowing my wife is still naughty.

I have let my wife go out but boundaries are a must! And she has to give me every detail on returning. She lets me go out as well. I met a married lady I made sure her husband was ok with it. Me and him became friends later on.

I am in exclusive relationship with my girlfriend. We do not date othet people. We love showing pics to help people get off, but no IRL contact with anyone else.

i agree with all you have said , we had talked about this a long time before , after she talked about all they did , how she liked or not , . But the best of all of it she enjoyed herself , is nt that what matters most ,,,just my

Normally we play together, one guy we had met and played with she wanted to meet alone so she did on her lunch, always asked and told me about it and sent some pictures. Have a friend that she likes and he likes her but he is to shy for a threeway she has met up with him numerous times, once again asks first and tells me about it and i get a few pictures